I am going to call her

[King_of_Crunkness23]

if yall have read my other post, then please respond to this, i have decided in the next few days that i am going to call her. What should i say? when is a good time to call? before she is getting ready for bed? when she wakes up? but foreal what should i say? someone give me some pointers........

[lauralied]

I'd call her at a time when you think she'd be least stressed, like after she gets off of work. I usually think a call around 7:30 or 8 in the evening is a good time to discuss matters with friends, or with relationships. I think you need to tell her you've been thinking of her, and that she doesn't have to decide right away, but you want to lay your emotions out on the table for her to take in. Give her an open invitation. Don't try to guilt her into a reconciliation or force anything, of course. Just be composed and sure of yourself, let her know you aren't coming back because you're needy but because you appreciate her love in your life.

 

Let me know how things go.