so he called today.

[Blue Skittles]

Ok, so my ex called today. I don't get it. He was the one that initiated the break-up, well kinda talked me into breaking up with him, whatever. Anyways. I was all good, getting over things, and then he called.

 

Why?

 

I was too busy to take his call. He called on my cell and my house and i was on the way to the gym and he asked how i was and i said i was fine but i had to let him go cuz i was driving. So i didn't even get a chance to find out what the heck he was calling for.

 

Why do exes call after its over???? Geez, I still have no idea WHY he wanted to break up. Now i gotta figure out why he wants to contact me. guys are stupid. not all of them, i know. but this one sure is.

[vimora]

Some guys can be really dense, I agree. My boyfriend just broke up with me today, sigh, I don't really get why either. I'm emotinally drained now but thought I'd check this site since it helped me with my last breakup three years ago.

 

I don't why your boyfriend called (of course) but if the break up was recent maybe he wants to reconcile but maybe only 'cause he's in that phase of remembering the good times. Try to remain rational about it if it's the case and think if you really want him back.

[lifestream]

Just because an ex calls you doesn't mean they lack mental capacity.

 

There IS a logic when it comes to calling exes and some reasons CAN make sense. I called my ex after we broke up so we could talk about why things went the way they did, kind of to get closure and realize our mistakes.