When to call?

[Kevin T]

I have a couple papers that are due next week! And guess who forgot about them? (You see, this is why going to school AND dating are not good ideas! lol)

 

I know I need to write the papers, but I also wanted to go out this weekend! Urrgh...

[Beec]

Kevin, if you ahve any other options, NO WEEKEND DATES. Asking a woman out for a weeknight is different froma sking her out on a weekend. Weeknight says no big and you are squeezing her in. Weekend says "will you be my girlfriend." Do you papers this weekend, let any woman you talk know you are busy, and ask one out tonight for a night during next week. And find that same attitude you had when you got their numbers. If you do, they will say yes.

[Kevin T]

Okay. I got it.

 

Let me ask then: When DOES the weekend date come into play?

[Beec]

Well, if you have a great first date, a second weekend date is possible. If it the first two dates are good, then make the third a weekend date.

[Kevin T]

Okay, thanks.

 

That's honestly what I was thinking, but it's nice to have some confirmation.

[Siriana]

Yeah, beec is right

[heloladies21]

Do you think you sound like a needy clingy guy when you talk to girls? I've never heard you, but I'd say probably not. You're not one of those people who has to worry about that. So call them up as soon as you honestly have time for it. Even just to talk for 10 minutes, you let them know that you're interested in them and aren't one of these immature guys who play head games (which they see right through anyways). I edge towards having a slightly aggressive personality when it comes to this and usually call the next day, if not that same night! And I know I never come off as needy. It's just not something that happens because of the way I do it.

 

So get on the case G so these girls don't get the impression that you're not so interested. That's a real risk you run by waiting.

[CaptainPlanet]

Two days after you get her number. I.e get number on mon, wait tues, weds, then call of thurs.