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[monkeyman]

So, um... I got her screen name, but I want to know if it's ok to ask a girl out that way. So is it ok to IM her and ask her out, or is it lame?

[lonelyguy]

well personally, i think its better to ask the girl out in person or on the phone instead of aim. it just sounds better in person than on the internet. but thats just my opinion

[The Kex]

i would suggest not to ask the girl out by IMing her. i have lots of friends that are girls and they always tell me the y like a guy to ask them out in person because they like guys who are confident. from experience, i know now not to ask a girl out this way beacuse in my ratin im 0 for 3 but when i ask a girl out in person im 3 for 5. so its really up to u im juss sharin my opinion good luck.

[The Kex]

i would suggest not to ask the girl out by IMing her. i have lots of friends that are girls and they always tell me they like a guy to ask them out in person because they like guys who are confident. from experience, i know now not to ask a girl out this way beacuse in my ratin im 0 for 3 but when i ask a girl out in person im 3 for 5. so its really up to u im juss sharin my opinion good luck.

[dude123]

I have to agree with everyone else on this. Asking a girl out on IM shows that u are shy and scared. I prefer asking a girl out in person. The phone may also be used to ask a girl out since it is a very close way of talking to a person one on one.

[Warrior_Xavior]

Using aim is a HUGE mistake

[Yahko]

Wasup !

 

Thats a good question ! I can tell you that many times guys IM me and ask the first thing "M/F?"

 

I answer "M" , and then they say "Bye". So basically if I would say "F", they would stay and try to Cyber me or something. Many guys just tell stupid things over the IM. And I think she would think you are another punk over the internet.

 

I can tell you that I chat with one girl for a month , and lets say now i can ask her to go out, becasue we know each other a little better.

 

So talk to her about everything you can. Be nice.....and bring the "go out" stuff not directly but throught somekind of conversation.

 

Like - "I'm going to a movie next week , If you would like to join me , just let me know...."

 

Not Direct questions like "Would you like to go out with me!" , of course she would say "No". But if you give her time to think and she knows you better she may go out with you.

 

Joee - "Feel It In The Air"

[monkeyman]

Nevermind. I'm back at school now, so I'll just go back to my original plan. She's never online anyway.

 

Also, today she ignored me when I said hi to her.