confusing thing

[xplosive2]

hey im new to oral sex and have fingered my gf a few times and each times her breathing speeds up and she mutters my name but after about 10 mins she stops feeling anything cant some1 help me with this plz or tell me wat im doing wrong or wat to do?

[Maverick32x]

maybe too fast? I'm going out on a limb here and relate it to any other nerve in your body... for example, if you keep tapping your hand on your forearm, eventually you will loose sensitivity... so perhaps you are going too fast and numbing it..... if that makes sense.. and i'm not a girl so I'm sure they have better advice for you!!!

[the yang to the worlds yin]

By ten minutes, it'll just get to be too boring, so spice it up by focusing on other parts of her body.

[xplosive2]

well i did move after a few mins but she said 'shouldnt have moved' so i moved back to where i was (last time this is)

[Mrs Elliott Smith]

she might be feeling de-sensitized if you're hitting the same area for 10 minutes, especially if you're doing it to her at the same pace (e.g. always fast).

 

Try moving your fingers around to other places (like her clit!!!), she might appreciate that much more, believe me.

[Honey Pumpkin]

Sometimes - and I'm oversharing here, I know! - if a guy focuses too long on my clitoris, then I can end up becoming numb and horny. It's a weird combination, of wanting to orgasm, but not being able to. That's why foreplay is such a good idea, to get her worked up a LOT before you hone in on the specific area!! I know what your girlfriend means though - it's definitely a physical thing, and for me it's better to work up slow than go straight to the heart of the matter, so to speak. Weird though (and frustrating!)

[xplosive2]

cheers for ur help u guys u been a real help any1 else got any advise id be happy to hear it