sgold Posted December 10, 2006 Share Posted December 10, 2006 There is this really cute guy I met in the fitness centre. He kind of approached me and spoke like 3 times. The conversation was pretty long, 10 min everytime i guess. I definitely felt there was this vibe going on between us. After that I never saw him in the gym. So I kind of jus messaged him asking if he just wanted to hang out during the weekend. But he doesnt respond. I dont get it. If he was not interested , why the hell did he have to come and talk. Dont I atleast deserve a reply saying he is busy or something? Link to comment
Lion-Guy Posted December 10, 2006 Share Posted December 10, 2006 Ya that doesn't make much sense sgold. If I was the guy and had any interest in you I would be contacting you back. (actions peak louder than words) And honestly, if I didn't have any interest I would have the respect to let you know. I would not worry about this guy. He is not worth the time. Link to comment
annie24 Posted December 10, 2006 Share Posted December 10, 2006 It's possible that he has a gf or a wife, and he just wanted to flirt with you a bit. Or, some guys just like to see if they can get your number, kind of as an ego booster, not that they have any intentions of calling you. Anyways, don't feel bad about yourself. It is probably about him, not you. My money is on the gf theory. The ball is in his court, if he responds, cool. if not, NEXT! Link to comment
sgold Posted December 11, 2006 Author Share Posted December 11, 2006 I did get a reply from him saying that he checked my email late and cannot hang out until after christmas break, coz of lots of work hours. and hopes to see me again sometime . I assume he is not interested and just being polite. what you guys say? Link to comment
annie24 Posted December 11, 2006 Share Posted December 11, 2006 so he can't see you for another 3 weeks? he sounds uninterested. NEXT! Link to comment
Lion-Guy Posted December 11, 2006 Share Posted December 11, 2006 I agree with Annie. That is a cop-out. He isn't interested. When I met a girl at the gym that I liked, I got her number on the spot and called her for a hike two days later. We don't hesitate for 3 weeks if we are interested. Link to comment
rasberigirl Posted December 11, 2006 Share Posted December 11, 2006 This guy sounds like a creep/player. His lack of response speaks for itself. You deserve better, forget him and move on. Link to comment
JulieW Posted December 11, 2006 Share Posted December 11, 2006 A guy knows that if you leave a girl on the line long enough she'll walk away. That's why they do it after they aren't interested anymore. They go after the ones they like. Link to comment
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