How do I cope with this negative person?

[missycuk2]

I live with my partner - the problem is his nephew is living with us also - he is a strong character and I wouldnt want to get on his bad side, so I keep myself neutral and friendly in my conversations with him.

 

Lately he has been very loud and obnoxious towards me with comments that he needs to take his uncle out to meet someone better than me, this has escalated in him being very rude and nasty (while drinking also)

 

I just dont know how to respond to him these days, I have tried to shout back, tell him to stop etc but nothing seems to stop him.

 

My partner tends to take the passive mode with him.

 

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you all so much

[yeawutever]

That must really suck, I dunno what I would do in that case, I would probably would have lost it long ago already, I can be short temper when it comes to really annoying people like that as well as yellers. Depending on what his age is, you migth wantt o refer him to a school counselor.

 

[NKP]

I wouldnt put up with it, its your place he should give you respect. Talk to your boyfriend about him and tell him you are sick of been treated like dog crap

[missycuk2]

Thanks for the replies so far - he is 35 years old

[Caterina]

Why the heck is your partner letting this guy say this stuff?! At least you're smart enough to recognize that he's a pushy jerk.

[yeawutever]

Thanks for the replies so far - he is 35 years old

 

Holly crap I though he was in either his early or late teens. Inform your partner that you are not going to put up with that crap and if he doesn't do anything about it, either you state that you'll be moving out or he (his nephew) leaves. Forget about the counselor suggestion, he needs to get thrown to the curb for rudeness, respectful, and childish behavior.

 

 

[NKP]

Yeah tell your bf hes out or your out, if hes going to keep acting like a jerk. Hes 35 he should know to give respect to people, and he is old enough to get his own oplace aswell

[Fallout]

Yep I agree with the others...you need to stop being a push-over and let others trample over you..so tell your partner in unequivocal terms he needs to go because his behavior is not acceptable...