bulls03 Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 I'm a college senior and this past weekend I had one of my good friends come visit me. When he first got here we immiddiately went out to a party and I didnt show him where he was sleeping. Around 2 my gf was drunk and asked me to put her to bed I then walked back to her room with her and put her to bed I laid down with her and fell asleep by accident. My friend tried to get ahold of me but i didnt wake up till 9 the next morn and he slept in his car. 5 days later he still has not talked to me, he won't pick up my phone calls, and he has told my friends hes pissed at me. I've called him at least once a day and left several messages saying how srry i was. Is there anything else i can do? will my friendship with him change? Link to comment
igoturhey-oh Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 the best thing to do is give him time to get over it. but you did say alot about how you feel about your friendship even if it was by accident. its good you feel remorse for it but yeah thats pretty harsh, try and email him so you can get out all you want to get out if he wont pick up ur calls. other than that i say just give him time. in this case a lot of time. this is coming from someone who has been stood up by my friends on "accident". Link to comment
NKP Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 How about go talk to him face to face, and make him listen to you. Or other than that just email or text him and say your sorry and if he wants you to leave him alone tell him he has to say and then you will. Or you could just give him time Link to comment
bsp_kjm Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 i had a very similar experience. i say just give him time. it took me about 3 weeks to forgive my friend. Link to comment
RelaxByWater84 Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 I did something similar, I forgot that my friend and I were supposed to do something together. So what I did was wait a week and then approached them. That way you both can discuss things calmly, at least that happened in my situation. Link to comment
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