Help! An admirer wants to be more

[LimeGreen]

I kinda fancy someone from this forum but I'm unsure as to how to approach her. She's the reason why I signed up or otherwise I'd still just be a silent reader.

 

How do I go about letting her know that I'm interested to not offending her as I'm sure she has lots of prospects ogling after her too?

[Tigris]

Ask her out on a date if you're already friends, she can only say yes or no. You've got nothing to lose and everythig to gain.

 

The longer you wait the more chance there is of someone else asking her.

 

Good luck

[Lansing]

Umm... do you fancy her based on her postings???

 

Or do you actually know her in real life!!

 

If you are just basing it on her postings and her pictures..... I think you should just get over the "Crush' you have.. if you know her in real life... do as per above..

[Tigris]

I met my fiancee through talking to her daughter on enotalone.

 

The only problem we have is she lives in Australia and I live in England. We're getting married in July.

 

If you don't ask the person you'll never know the answer.

 

Good luck.

[Dating Coach]

Why would you be worried about offending her when you're intentions are to ask her out? Are you hideously ugly or stinky? I'm sure you're not so you shouldn't be worried about "offending her" by asking her on a date. If anything she should be flattered.

[Stinkweed]

Why would you be worried about offending her when you're intentions are to ask her out? Are you hideously ugly or stinky? I'm sure you're not so you shouldn't be worried about "offending her" by asking her on a date. If anything she should be flattered.

 

I agree with the man here... The only girls who get offended by guys asking them out are not the type of girl you'd be interested in anyway (and I very much doubt they'd sign up on these forums). I say go on. Good luck and best wishes.