weezer Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 does anyone have any advice Link to comment
HeartAche Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 What makes you think it's over? Link to comment
weezer Posted October 9, 2006 Author Share Posted October 9, 2006 she said so and meant it this time, it was in her eyes. we never fought like that before. and she never asked for the keys back before. Link to comment
weezer Posted October 9, 2006 Author Share Posted October 9, 2006 are you still there? Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 What was the fight about? Give us a little more info about your relationship. Link to comment
weezer Posted October 9, 2006 Author Share Posted October 9, 2006 help i need some advice Link to comment
HeartAche Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 Have you tried talking to her since then? Most people say or do things in the heat of the moment that, when they think back, regret later on. Just because she wanted her keys back and gave you yours back doesn't necessarily mean it's over. Link to comment
weezer Posted October 9, 2006 Author Share Posted October 9, 2006 wish i could take back the words Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 What did she say that offended you? When you "let her have it" do you think you were a little harsh? You should apologize, tell her you know you were wrong.(if you are) Tell her what she means to you. When my ex and I would fight-he could be so mean and say such hateful things. Sometimes I think if he just would have come after me when I left so hurt and angry, or called and told me he knew how wrong he'd been-I think we might have worked things out. Good luck Link to comment
weezer Posted October 9, 2006 Author Share Posted October 9, 2006 thanks. but i said it all good and bad. i apologized for the things i said and did. i just wonder if she chose this trivial event as an excuse to end it? i think she needs space. doesn't distance make the heart grow fonder? Link to comment
HeartAche Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 That's one way to look at it, but on the other side of the coin there's "out of site, out of mind". Don't let pride stand in the way of talking to her. Contact her and find out what she wants first. If she wants a break then, if you're okay with that, agree to it and immediately start NC. At the moment though, it sounds like you don't know where things are, so I would definitely try to establish where her heads at. Link to comment
weezer Posted October 9, 2006 Author Share Posted October 9, 2006 you're right i'm just too scared to call today. it's too fresh. i'm thinking maybe to give it a few days to chill? Link to comment
weezer Posted October 9, 2006 Author Share Posted October 9, 2006 so much anger so much sadness Link to comment
ibenhad Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 I chose to not call mine after she angrily ended it almost 2 weeks ago. I miss her so and would love to tell her. NC is hard but I think she needs time to get her life in order. Sometimes we all need alone time and space. I don't truly believe she is alone but I will hope that one day she will come back. Don't let anger or NC cloud your view only you know whats right for you to do. Link to comment
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