Its Not Working. Sorry!?!?!?!?

[xentez]

Hey all

 

Brief question

 

when me and my g/f split up she said the reason was because it wasnt working.

 

what does this actually mean

 

answers from men and women applicable

 

xen

[markfromark]

I don't know for how long you have been together but maybe after talking to you about your core values/ideas/vision of life she realized that hers are different and thereforeeee she decided to get out because she sees no future with you.

Have you asked her why it is not working for her? Ask her about an "exit interview" so that you can understand.

[flooglebinder]

I got that yesterday, For me it meant that she wants different things, even though she loves me she sees no future in us. Mind u ours was a very very complicated situation and I guess she wants normality. Doesn't help me though. Sometimes I wish they would all just cheat on us instead of messing with our heads!

[xentez]

we were together a year and 3 months.

 

we broke up friday night

 

i dont understand we talked about marriage kids etc all through last week. had a little argument during the week on wednes day but everything was sorted thursday evening/ friday morning

 

xen

[desertnomad]

I got the 'I dont see a future' and she cheated on me. Didnt help she cheated felt just as bad. 4 years is long time to all of the sudden not see a future. but I guess in my case she was looking at another future.

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

She's just not really into you. If she was, differences wouldn't matter.