I really need advice on what to do this time

[Rojas]

Ok here it is, me and my girl (ex) broke up 5 months ago, I still try to make things civil, but she seems to hate me (she says so) and then she avoids me when she sees me. Does this mean she's moved on and its time for me to do the same. I love her, and some say that she still cares so that's why she doesn't let me approach her cause she's hurt and some say she's over me but still mad, that she could stay mad forever, is that possible? what should I and could I do about this situation, any suggestions before I go crazy...lol

[segagirl]

Hey there,

 

I guess I wonder why you feel the need to make things civil? I mean you can be that way....does not mean you should expect that in return. There is no way of knowing how she is feeling, unless you ask. Its just her way of dealing with the breakup. I say just let it go and be nice if you happen to see her.

[wildworld]

hey basically i am in pretty much in the same position of trying to get my ex to forgive me but there is only so much i can do. she says we can never be Just frens and we should avoid one another so I empathise but what can be done?