johnnynz Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 I've just met this fantastic hot girl and right after I put the condom on, I go limp. I admit I'm hella nervous and anxious that I'm going to cum before her or something. It's so embarrasing and I don't know what to say!! What should I do? I've been in long term relationships before with no problem.. Link to comment
Tigris Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 Tell her you want to please her first. After her orgasm she can deal with you. That way your problem is solved and you won't be nervous. Link to comment
johnnynz Posted September 2, 2006 Author Share Posted September 2, 2006 You mean, for example, orally? Link to comment
Cardinal Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 She probably means specifically orally =D Link to comment
Tigris Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Yep orally is the best way to go. Concentrate on her clit unless she tells you otherwise. Good luck. Link to comment
johnnynz Posted April 7, 2007 Author Share Posted April 7, 2007 Tried this (fingered her) and while I think she enjoyed it same thing happened - all ready to go then the moment I go to get the condom and put it on I'm down again. Really annoying!!!!!! I wasn't even consciously nervous either. Any more tips anyone can give? Is there something wrong with me? Link to comment
Dilemma Posted April 7, 2007 Share Posted April 7, 2007 Nothing's wrong, maybe you're just too nervous or too tired (physically)... try to get into a relaxed state, or if you are indeed tired, just fool around in bed till you both get so hot and turned on... You can get limp also if your not turned on enough... so make sure you're steaming hot.. Link to comment
johnnynz Posted April 7, 2007 Author Share Posted April 7, 2007 Nothing's wrong, maybe you're just too nervous or too tired (physically)... try to get into a relaxed state, or if you are indeed tired, just fool around in bed till you both get so hot and turned on... You can get limp also if your not turned on enough... so make sure you're steaming hot.. Oh yes things were steaming hot, so much sexual energy there! Honestly I was tired, so maybe that was why. Dunno It's just that it's now happened two or three times with different women and I'm starting to get worried that I'm never going to be able to keep it up again!!! Guess not using a condom would fix it. This never happened with my ex gf.. Link to comment
SW Posted April 7, 2007 Share Posted April 7, 2007 Thsi has happened to men since the beginning of time , dont worry it just nerves.try to relax Its happened to me at the beginning of a relationship. I guess it was nerves , I didnt feel nervous but the same thing happened. After a few tries though everything starts working again. Link to comment
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