crazy300 Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 So, when I'm gazing at my crush when hes walking by, hes looks at the 'space' right next to me (anywhere but me) and grins/smiles widely. He wont look at my face/make eye contact. He does it a lot....and i keep wondering who or what hes smiling at Is this a shy guy trait?? Link to comment
Cid Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 for us shy guys yes, I think you should co up and talk to him Link to comment
Managor Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 Shy/lack of confidence often come in the same package, though. I think he might be shy, but you'd figure that out easier if you tried talking to him, and see how he acts that way. Link to comment
Q10 Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 when you talk to him, the chances are he'll look uninterested though, so it's a tough one Link to comment
hoppy27 Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 i totally disagree with anyone that says "shyness means lack of confidence". i think that comment is a total crock. Link to comment
Managor Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 I didn't say one means the other, just saying people who are shy or have a lack of confidence often have the other one as well. I didn't mean any harm when I said that, it's just my opinion. Link to comment
lolok33 Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 Maybe he was staring at you, but you moved your eyes onto him. Then he didn't want to be caught looking at you, so he slightly moved his focus as if it appear like he was looking at something else. I've done this before definitely. How often does he do this? Have you ever caught him staring at you instead of the space next to you? How well do you know each other? Link to comment
crazy300 Posted August 19, 2006 Author Share Posted August 19, 2006 Maybe he was staring at you, but you moved your eyes onto him. Then he didn't want to be caught looking at you, so he slightly moved his focus as if it appear like he was looking at something else. I've done this before definitely. How often does he do this? Have you ever caught him staring at you instead of the space next to you? How well do you know each other? He used to stare at me a LOT before, it was scary....but of late, he wont look directly at me. Of late, Ive caught him staring twice from really far, but up close, he looks past me, smiling. Even if i say hi, he wont look. I know he can see me from the corner of his eye, i dont understand his behavior. Link to comment
atraceofblood Posted August 20, 2006 Share Posted August 20, 2006 He used to stare at me a LOT before, it was scary....but of late, he wont look directly at me. Of late, Ive caught him staring twice from really far, but up close, he looks past me, smiling. Even if i say hi, he wont look. I know he can see me from the corner of his eye, i dont understand his behavior. I think he may have an interest, but is afraid of getting rejected by you if he were to directly look at you up close. I know I feel that way a lot. Have you talked to him before? Maybe you should try talking to him. As someone said earlier, he may not appear interested, but inside he probably is. Just have to stick with it and maybe be more direct with him. Link to comment
Kyoshiro Ogari Posted August 20, 2006 Share Posted August 20, 2006 So, when I'm gazing at my crush when hes walking by, hes looks at the 'space' right next to me (anywhere but me) and grins/smiles widely. He wont look at my face/make eye contact. He does it a lot....and i keep wondering who or what hes smiling at Is this a shy guy trait?? Ah, the old 'space right next to you' move. I've done this so many times, I often forget how my crushes actually look! And I am not saying that to be funny, it's true. They probably think I'm c0ckeyed or something. That is probably the #2 shy trait right before blushing. Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 So, when I'm gazing at my crush when hes walking by, hes looks at the 'space' right next to me (anywhere but me) and grins/smiles widely. He wont look at my face/make eye contact. He does it a lot....and i keep wondering who or what hes smiling at Is this a shy guy trait?? yeah, he looks beside you and not at you because, if he makes eye contact most likely he will blush and get embarrassed...just my opinion though (being shy sucks, lol) Link to comment
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