cheeseball way to break NC

[cherriecheek]

we've been broken up for about six weeks and for over three weeks, my ex and i had NC, although we never really established it. today, he texts me with...

 

"is your dad ok? i saw something on the news about a police officer"

 

i responded with...

 

"oh yeah...hes on vaca, but thanks for wondering

 

i didnt want to ignore him, but i wanted to keep things friendly but pleotonic (sp?). this text was a shock because of all things to say and all the ways to reach me, why would he say something about my dad? is he honestly concerned or is he just trying to keep contact?

[PRSOV]

I would have to say he is probably concerned about your family...

 

How close were the two of you?

[cherriecheek]

we were very close, he was also close to my family. we did a LDR for about 9months of our 1.5 year long relationship due to me being away at school.

 

my question is...if someone is that concerned about my family, wouldnt you call?

[PRSOV]

That might be digging up something he didn't want to get into...

 

If he was close to your family it would only he normal for him to be concerned about your father, right?

 

PR