how do i know if he likes me or is just playing games?

[wishing]

i mean how can i tell if he likes me, coz i know we flirt like hell, but is he just toying with? what r the signs i shud b looking for?

 

please help

[SweetypieEnlightenedOne]

When a man really likes you they just want to spend time with you. If you find yourself somewhere (a place that maybe he had to go out of his way to be)then you can rest assured that he is trying to be near you. If your out and he is out too, then he might be keeping up with your moves and has the hots for you. If a guy really likes you..you don't have to guess...ya just know!

[jenny954]

duse he konw that you are flirting with him. Have you told him how you fill about him? If not you should tell him.

[bzborow1]

Most guys have trouble figuring out the less than obvious signs (touching, you telling him, etc). I think if you just tell him how you feel that would be a sure way to figure it out. A lot of guys need this, myself sometimes included, i've passed up a couple of girls because i just didn't get the "signs". If you wanted to be obvious without actually admitting you like him, next time he flirts with you...you could ask him, "are you flirting with me?", and smile to let him know you accept his advances.

[bzborow1]

or you could say, "is that your way of asking me out?"

[wishing]

thank u 4 all 4 the advice! now 1 bigger problem cud i handle facing the rejection????

[bzborow1]

Of course you can!!!! Just ask yourself, how better or worse off will you actually be if he declines your invite???

[jenny954]

Well you have the power to answer that qustion yourself. Ask him there is no harm in that is there? If you think he will rejecte you just hint around to it adventule he'll realize you like him. Do what you think is best. good luck to you.