setsuko1981 Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Would you still LIKE/GO OUT WITH someone, who you DO NOT FIND physically attractive (NOT GOOD LOOKING, NOT SEXY), but has GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR, ETC...In short, someone who has the INNER BEAUTY, not the OUTSIDE? Link to comment
SympatheticLoner Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 well, i would as long as they don't look THAT bad. Link to comment
Massimo Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Honestly- I wouldn't plan gettin into any type of relationship with them. Im not a mean guy. But wouldn't you want someone nice to look at? Someone that appeals to you? Yes inner beauty is great and all, but beautiful people DO have inner beauty as well. If you mean, go out with- as in, one date and something harmless....by all means why not....If it snowballed into something bigger, then you may have answered your question for yourself based on the experience with the person. Massimo Link to comment
Dreamdancer118 Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Looks play a big factor in attraction, but ive found myself attracted to people that i normall wouldnt be attracted to.... becuase of inner beauty.... personality, and charm.... Link to comment
SilenThunder Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 The thing is... To discover someone's true inner beauty, you really need to get to know them as a friend. One of my friends I thought wasn't attractive at all, but we became friends and eventually I liked her for her inner beauty. She was an awesome person, and eventually her looks didn't matter at all to me... My friends would tell me she's not hot and wasn't attractive, but I just looked past that and it was like it didn't exist anymore. I saw a beautiful person... Some people call it "lowering your standards". To me it was just a friend I really got to know. I would go out with someone who I didn't find physically attractive, as long as they had a good personality. Link to comment
Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 I think dreamdancers got a good point. But apart from that, u can't really say coz when u like someone.. u're blinded and in ur eyes...they'll always b beautiful and attractive, no matter what others say. Happy heb Link to comment
za3raa69 Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 well i had a bf for 2 months and he was just amazing, but:S i wasnt attracted to him physically , it all depends on how the girl is attracted to u, i can be very attracted to a guy even if hes not sexy or goodlooking, and i might not be attracted to a guy who has the looks either. it all depends on the girl see ya! Link to comment
sphinx999 Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 well lookin at my past bfs i dnt go for looks and i usually dnt notice that they r not attractive till me mates pick on me abat it. I cant bear to spend time wi ppl without personalities coz they r so borin, but im not sayin that attractive guys dnt hav personalities. People judgwe too much on looks and dnt seek out ppls inner beins thats why societies in such a mess. Link to comment
DealingWithIt Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 looks aren't everything. you can be physically attracted to someone but their personality sucks and that makes them "ugly" in my eyes. do you ever see couples in the street and wonder how that person ended up with such a hottie? we get to know the person inside and if we like that side to them, we look past the outer beauty. Link to comment
Smokeycat Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 I may go out with them but it probably wouldn't last long. If I wanted to have an actual relationship...everything has to be there. If I can't even kiss the dude...he's outa here. Link to comment
electric_blue_lightening Posted August 3, 2003 Share Posted August 3, 2003 everyone is beautiful to someone........ Link to comment
Babes Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 YES! I would because I know I am no peach to fun off and brag about to your friends too. Plus it is more important to love the person inside then the person out. Link to comment
pi_anochik Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Yes, if I could tell that they were the one or that I would have a great time wit them, I would Link to comment
fantasygal78 Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Like some of you have stated ...beauty is in the eye of the beholder...When i met my ex i almost judged by "apperance" he wasnt ugly just lil things that was "dif" to what i was used to dating. But i spoke to him and had fun with him and from that night on we never left each others side for almost 4 yrs ....the reason we arent together is another story all together ..but my point is ...just because u look at someone and they dont make u "drool" at thier outside beauty doesnt mean that you arent passing up something beautiful....u could b passing up your soul mate ! JUST MHO Link to comment
bettiepagerules Posted August 5, 2003 Share Posted August 5, 2003 You obviously haven't seen the movie Kissing Jessica Stein, it's all about "sexy ugly" Gotta see that movie but anyways for the most part the men that I become infactuated with are quite ugly a lot of the time but they become attractive to me after we connect well or we have a nice convo Link to comment
just_smile Posted August 5, 2003 Share Posted August 5, 2003 yes because you can have fun with some1 who has a good sense of humour but not as much with some1 who only has the looks, looks can only get a person so far in life remember one of my fav quotes 'beauty thinks it needs no talent and thinks it can survive without it but alone it becomes weak and dies' a good sense of humour will get you to most of the places in life where you want to be. thinks of this way a sense of humour will last an eternity whereas looks will only last for about 50 years if your lucky. Just_smile ps is this just in general or is there a meaning behind this message? Link to comment
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