Taking a brake , and it's not horrible

[Aschleigh]

I had an argument with my boyfriend about the same stuff we always argue about and I just feet so tired of it. We decide to take a brake. At this point it's a weekend brake, it may be more. I think we both need sometime to think.

And I feel ok, not great but confidence that I need to take care of myself first and foremost. I will not be in a relationship that compromises my mental, emotional health, which is what it was doing. I think I have turned a corner in a way. I know that I am more important to me than any relationship. I frist have to get things right with me then attract like souls.

I care about my BF immensely, But I can't do the work of making our relationship healthy all by myself. I am going to a counselor, continuing my excercise program, getting out and about around LA.

Like Einstien says " Within every difficulty there is opportunity"

I don't Love him less, I just Love myself more.

[lunatic]

BRAVO!!!! Sometimes it is easy to lose focus of what is truly important(you). I think it is great that your doing what is RIGHT for YOU! Who knows this break may be the best thing that could have happened to you both. No matter what happens you are doing the right thing!

[Aschleigh]

Yes, I am focusing on me and my opportunities in this situation. I have career opportunities ahead, I can go out by myself, I don't have to worry about him all the time.

I am concentrating on the posititve.

[Alabama]

Good. You're taking the rights step to improve yourself. Keep it up!