I Think I Got Stood Up

[aggierocker]

I drove an hour and arrived, called her and she said she'll call in hour. All I said was ok will you be ready in hour. Im here not knowing what to do. I shouldve said something. Is it too late?

[ocrob]

That was so wrong of her. Taking an hour drive to meet someone is a big gamble. I say that you call her and see how she acts towards you. If she is apologizes, then make another date and have her drive to you. If she is unwilling, then give her the boot with a steel toe. I believe everyone deserves a second chance, but I am assuming she is heartless and lame. But, give her the opportunity to come and see you. If she is unwilling, then tell her she is not worth another hour drive.

[aggierocker]

What do I say to her?

[Q10]

 

 

There ya go, same thing happened me a month ago.. Here's what I did. She has apologised, I just accepted her apology yesterday, but I wouldn't think of anything with a girl like that.

[coollady1957]

I agree with ocrob. Did you call her earlier and remind her of the date, like you had mentioned in another thread? If so , how did she sound then? Was she all set to meet you or what ?

 

I am not sure about this girl, maybe you should move on to a new one. If I were set to have a date with someone, I do not think I would need that reminder call as you had mentioned before.

 

Maybe call her though and get and explanation. Have your thoughts together, and wait to see if she either gives you a viable explanation for the no show, or gives a lame excuse.Then is when I would have my next words in my mind to either, tell her you want to set up another date or , to get lost and that she is not worth the efforts.

 

I have been stood up before, and I hate that feeling inside.

[Diablo7000]

same thing happened to me with my ex, we were supposed to go to a club to dance and like, she said get there at 7 and i did, so i called her at 7:30 sitting in the parking lot, and we talked and then she said i have to go and hung up, so ic alled back at 8:30, and she said we ahvnt even elft ye, i was soooo pissed, i told her alota * * * * and pretty much cussed her out, she felt really abd, so i jsut hung up on ehr and went home, and she called alter and apologized, but iw as stillupset so... just thot i'd share that with ya, so dnt feel bad..

[coollady1957]

This is my getting stood up thread. Just shows you how some people have no conscience when it comes to standing some one up. ARGGGG !!!

I think if people make a date, they should keep it. I wouldn't dare stand some one up.

 

[AwdreeHpburn]

OK - wait - you called her to remind her, drove for an hour to meet her and she said to call her back in another hour???

 

Or you got down there and called her, that WAS the remonder call and she said give her an hour??

[Q10]

We've also talked about the same thing here,

 

on the 3rd page.. Most of the advice I got was "don't talk to her."

So I didn't, and she sent me an email after saying how sorry she was.

[aggierocker]

I called 2 hours before to remind her, she said ill call you i have to take care of something and called when I got here. Im gona call my friends here now.

[heloladies21]

If you're there and she hasn't shown up, call her and ask her where she is. If she gives you any kind of shady answer, say alright see ya and get off the phone and write this one off. Handle things the way i told you in the other thread next time this happens with another girl and you will be in much better shape. If by some miracle she contacts you in the future, have her make it up to you, but don't make it easy on her ie. make her drive all the way to your place and don't put too much stock in her as she ditched you once and has the potential to do it again unless she shows you otherwise.

 

You have to handle things differently the next time or else you'll get these results in the future. In a situation like this don't let girls make tenative plans. If they try to do it, you can't just be cool with it.

[aggierocker]

shall i just chill for 20 min waiting for her call? i feel suckered. she said she would be rdy in an hr and 30 min when i called an hr ago.

[Bigbilly]

When she said "call me in an hour" I would've said something to the effect of "Well, if you can't make it, I need to get going home and *insert some excuse here*." Then I would make a polite goodbye, go home, and never call this girl again.

 

Don't ever let a girl walk all over you like this girl is doing.

[moondog627]

Personally, I wouldn't have called her after she already told you she would call later. Now I would simply write her off and move on. But if she calls you be cool and don't give her any signs that she got to you. And do not ask her out again.