Change

[BlueCoconut]

They are things about myself, that I want to change. But I don't know where nor how to start. Per example I need to stop being so undecisive...

 

Any advice or suggestions?

[melrich]

Hi bluecoconut.

 

It may help if you give some more detail.

 

Indecisiveness afflicts everyone from time to time. The best way to mitigate it is to decide on a decision making process that works for you and to stick with it.

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

For indecisevenss, I'd recommend giving yourself half an hour, a piece of paper and a pen.

 

Make a pros and cons list/list all possible outcomes. Get up after 30 minutes with your decision and stick to it.

 

Or, as Susan Jeffers recommended in one of her books, step back from a situation for a moment - use the question "I wonder what BlueCoconut is going to do?" NOT "ARGH! What the HECk am I going to do?!?"

 

Makes Ya Calmer.