jensxcom Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 I was visiting an older cousin, we were just hanging out, talking. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 Well maybe cuz that's how some guys are perceived as. Some jerks do get psysical, maybe that's why ur older cuz ask you that. Link to comment
jensxcom Posted March 24, 2006 Author Share Posted March 24, 2006 Maybe cause he beats his wife or his friends do? I thought it was bizarre he would ask me this I was just talking, making small talk, he barely knows me at all. I feel disgusted by his question Link to comment
yeawutever Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 Yea, I would feel the same way, it's a very weird question. I'm guessing he has issues. Link to comment
jensxcom Posted March 24, 2006 Author Share Posted March 24, 2006 yeah at the time i brushed it off but now im thinking of it more and i think it was totally messed up, weird, and also what does this guy think of me to ask me that? I just lost respect for him and want to have less contact with him after asking me that.. He couldve just said well how is he a jerk, what does he do? He just came out and goes "DOES HE BEAT YOU UP"? i think its disgusting. I havent even told my Mom and my brother he said that. Link to comment
BillyJean714 Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 Or, here's another side to it, maybe he grew up watching his mother get beaten up, so he assumes that when a guy's a jerk, he beats women up, because that's what he perceived to be true. If he asked in a way that he seemed really concerned for you, then it's probably becasue he's trying to act like a brother and watch over you. Link to comment
pchellak Posted March 24, 2006 Share Posted March 24, 2006 I noticed in this post that guys did not have any comments. Probably a lot of guys are thinking like me. We say the stupidest things, sometimes without thinking first. Maybe he was teasing you or maybe he was being dramatic. I dont see a reason to analyze that one blurt and assume he is an abusive person based on just one comment. Unless you have other reasons to suspect that he is abusive. Link to comment
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