Princess18 Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 Ive recently moved to france to be an aupair in my gap year. As I didnt know many people the family i live and work for asked their nephew yann to take me out with him and introduce me to people to help me make friends. However i end up falling for yann and wanting something to happen between us. I get the impression he likes me but im not sure. Anyway... After several debates with the family LOL i pluck up the courrage to tell him that id like to be more than friends. He says no and says he wants to stay friends. His friends told me its difficult for him because im a part of the family and it could be awkward if something happens. Then last night we went out to a club and whilst we were dancing he kissed me!!! Like a full on kiss!! TWiCE....im so confused i thought he wanted to be friends? Surely you wouldnt passionately kiss someone you only wanted to be friends with?? what do you all think? Link to comment
xblondyx Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 Maybe he's just worried that, if something does happen, then it all falls apart, it would affect the family environment, with you working there and seeing him a lot. Link to comment
ElektraHere Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 Was drinking invovled? If so there is the answer for the kisses. If not his friends are right, he may be attracted to you but if you were to end badly it would make for uncomfortable family times. Link to comment
Princess18 Posted March 19, 2006 Author Share Posted March 19, 2006 hhhmm yes we were both a bit drunk....but i really like him- he told his aunt that he thinks im gorgeous so i know he likes me- but doesnt want to do anything about it....=( Link to comment
ElektraHere Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 The alcohol was the major reason he kissed you. Someone can think your drop dead gorgeous and not want to date you. Just do the job you were hired to do, meet others, enjoy France, forget the guy. Link to comment
Princess18 Posted March 19, 2006 Author Share Posted March 19, 2006 Was drinking invovled? If so there is the answer for the kisses. If not his friends are right, he may be attracted to you but if you were to end badly it would make for uncomfortable family times. But what do I do? just be friends with him knowing we like eachother? Link to comment
Momene Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 I'd suspect he's been told by someone you're off limts, which is why you get mixed messages. If that's the case, you'll need to forget being more than friends, hard though it is. Good luck. Link to comment
KandiBabe Posted March 20, 2006 Share Posted March 20, 2006 awww that sounds cute but the alcohol bit is a touch confusing. It may have just been the alcohol doing it or it may be that he really does like you but you are 'off limits' and the alcohol just brought it out of him!!! If I was in the situation I would confront him and if he can truly say he doesn't like you that way then try and forget about him and just have fun. Luv Ya All ME Link to comment
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