lou_lou Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 i have been with my boyfriend for 6months, in all this time when we have sex he ALWAYS wants to do it from behind. If i try any other position he cant keep a hard on!! i am really beginning to worry now. ](*,) Link to comment
Sunshine07 Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Hmmm, strange. I've heard that guys who like that position have a thing with women being submissive cause its a very dominant, controlling, aggressive position for the male. Have you talked to him about it at all? Link to comment
lou_lou Posted March 5, 2006 Author Share Posted March 5, 2006 Yes, I have spoke to him about it, he says he likes it better like that. The other thing is, where he is ALWAYS behind me we never kiss during sex. I am going to have another chat with him in the next couple of days because i'm getting really upset by all of this. thanx for replying to me Link to comment
Sunshine07 Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Yeah, I definitely think you should talk to him about it if its bothering you (and honestly, I think your completely justified in being upset). Link to comment
PocoDiablo Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 "Doggie" is the #1 position men like, say the so-called staticians. So, he seems to be pretty normal to me. Remember, the #1 fantasy is to have sex with anonymous women, unlike women who want to (generally) have sex with only one guy. So for guys, not seeing your face allows him to fantasize more about your body, what it is doing, how beautiful it is, etc. You might try blindfolding him... (hint, hint) but I don't know what making him feel more self conscious about losing his hard on is going to help... If anything, I would say work WITH him to try new things. Link to comment
seally Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 Yes, I have spoke to him about it, he says he likes it better like that. The other thing is, where he is ALWAYS behind me we never kiss during sex. I am going to have another chat with him in the next couple of days because i'm getting really upset by all of this. thanx for replying to me My boyfriend loves this postion because he says he can get sooo much deeper and be totally in control. Maybe thats it, u can't blame the guy if it is!! Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 I understand that guys like it better for all of the reasons stated. Girls like it for those same reasons...OCCASIONALLY. But ALL the time?? That would concern me. Especially if you've told him you'd like to try other positions. Link to comment
lou_lou Posted March 6, 2006 Author Share Posted March 6, 2006 thanx for all your help. so all you men out there... what is the reason a man cant keep a hard on?? i am beginning to think its me!! Link to comment
miserableme Posted March 9, 2006 Share Posted March 9, 2006 My ex used to love doggie. He said it reminded him of anal sex without actually having to do it (we tried anal...too painful). He was able to stay hard with other positions but doggy made him cum the quickest. He was one of those guys who got hard just by seeing me nude or semi nude. I don't know why your man likes it so much. Maybe it's a combination of things. I would just have a serious talk about it, but try not to offend him. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 If a man loves you he will be willing to try different things in order to please you. One way may be preferred, but he will be willing to try variety. As for staying hard, could it be something mental? Remember, the #1 fantasy is to have sex with anonymous women, unlike women who want to (generally) have sex with only one guy. Call me crazy, but why want to have sex with a stranger that you don't even know when you can do it with someone you love? Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 It sounds more like his issue than yours. I believe you need to get him out of this habit as it can become sexually borning only having sex from behind. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted March 10, 2006 Share Posted March 10, 2006 While I can understand variety, I personally don't think that I would get bored so long as I could be with the one I love. But that's just me. Link to comment
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