male orgasim

[ditzgirl]

How can you tell if your man has had an orgasim. I have been reaserchning this and so far I have found orgasim and cum is not the same and he should have energy after orgasim. My man durring intercouse pauses to keep from cumming to early. should he learn to control it with out pausing. whould this bring him to orgasim. Im not sure if he has or not orgasimed.

[Versa]

Have you talked with your bf about this? Has he told you he orgasimed? If not try talking to him about it Also if he's pausing, I think thats a good sign he's trying not to cum/orgasim too soon

 

But I'm a guy and generally cumming is orgasim. Except for after a few times when (excuse the term) the tanks are empty. As for pausing or learning to hold it back, practice makes perfect and there are lots of books out there to help with this sort of thing. But for that you'll have to talk to him about that as he'll need to start practicing the techniques.

 

Just remember practice makes perfect and being nervious/worried/self conscious are bad! These things will undo any practice And if you are feeling any of the above, talk with your partner!