How should I respond after he's contacted me?

[redhook]

I don't know him but I think most men will call a spade a spade. A dead end is a dead end. I would be fighting to get my ex back now if she would let me but she has told me to not try at this point because her focus must be on her pregnancy. I tried the letters and flowers and it didn't work so now I am done until she let's me know I can pursue it again. Sometimes men screw up and don't know how to fix things and need a little help or push. At least I do. I would call him and talk because even though the outcome may not be what you want to hear you will feel better about it quicker then you imagine. Feeling anxious and what I imagine your stomach feels like now is no fun dear. Be prepared for the worst and know it may happen but go for it so you can have closure. Good luck!

[blender]

same as above, asked to delete for friend.

[redhook]

Sounds like you have made up your mind. This to shall pass.

[blender]

friend's story, asked me to delete

[blender]

ditto of above..delete

[sddeaston]

Oh hey, I wanted to know too