I'm so confuse, please help me out ?

[kaistern]

Ok, so I decided to ask out this girl that I know for like a year for Winter Formal, here is our conversation:

 

Me: Hey, you going to Winter Formal this year right ?

Her: Yup, are you ?

Me: May be =), so you have a date yet ?

Her: *giggle* no =)

Me: Want to go with me then =)

Her: *look at me kinda surprise by that question and turn away really quck and start to giggle* (She having this expression of surprise and geez I dont know what I should say kinda look if you know wut I mean)

----That go on for like about 40 second---

Me: *Smile* It alright if you dont want to =)

Her: *continue to giggle a little more*

Her: Actually I'm gonna go with Joey, but I'll tell you what, I'll save a dance just for you ok =)

Me: Ok =) (broken heart inside though)

 

 

So in the end, I really dont know what her feeling toward me is, cuz the answer that she gave me is not really a shot down but as the same time, not a yes either -_-. Is she actually have some interest in me or is she not ? I'm so confuse now -_-

[ElektraHere]

The reaction should tell you everything. I am sure she was embarrassed the laughing seemed to distract from the moment. I don't think she was interested in that moment but who knows down the line? Ask another gal or go stag with some friends of yours. I know when i was in HS many many moons ago there were some guys that did that and I think they had more fun then the rest.

Whatever you decide don't take this as an end all go and have fun with HS these are the moments that prepare us for whats to come in the future.

 

Good Luck

[AwdreeHpburn]

hmmmmmm.......

 

Seems hard to read. She first said, "no" that she didn't have a date. But then she said, "actually... I am going w/ someone"

 

Maybe she was trying to let you down easy but a part of her thinks its cool you're into her.

 

I think you shouldn't let her abuse that by actually taking the dance she ever so graciously plans to save for you...That wouldn't be fair to you or to the date she is there with.

[kaistern]

hmmmmmm.......

 

Seems hard to read. She first said, "no" that she didn't have a date. But then she said, "actually... I am going w/ someone"

Yea, that part is really confusing, I been trying to firgure out her motive by saying that. Some of my friends told me that it might be that she dont consider that guy her date but more like a friend that she promise to go with, and the fact that she already have someone to go with and yet still willing to save me a dance meaning she might be interested in me more then the person she going with. I really doubt that would be the case, since it sound like some type of stuff in fantasy book lol

[Bethany]

I really doubt that would be the case, since it sound like some type of stuff in fantasy book lol

 

I don't doubt it at all. Sounds about right to me. Go get that girl.

[kaistern]

I don't doubt it at all. Sounds about right to me. Go get that girl.

hmmm, I see