second_opinion Posted February 11, 2006 Share Posted February 11, 2006 ok guys, its nearly 2am and i still cant sleep. I have something on my mind thats really bothering me. Theres this guy i like, i want to see him tomorrow, however he lives nearly 1hr away. He doesnt have a car anymore due to a big accident, so he cant come to me, he has gone out of his way twice for me. Now i was wondering if i should drive up to see him. would i be wasting my time? should i wait til he comes to see me? would i look desperate or easy of i go to him instead of him coming to me?? Link to comment
second_opinion Posted February 11, 2006 Author Share Posted February 11, 2006 oh i should add, that he was at his friends house who is a female and had a couple of drinks while her bf was overseas. This was afew days ago... I feel like im going to get used... Or maybe Im wrong... Link to comment
DN Posted February 11, 2006 Share Posted February 11, 2006 Why would you look desperate if you put half as much effort into seeing him as he has already put into seeing you? Link to comment
savannahohsavannah Posted February 11, 2006 Share Posted February 11, 2006 Ok, so there is a guy you like who for some reason cannot come see you? And you believe it will look trashy if you pick up the phone, call and see if it's okay to visit? WHERE did you meet this guy? If he's an internet connection, chances are higher he's sexually promiscuous and using the web to find sex! thereforeeee your fears may be well-grounded. But don't you know the power of refraining from a casual fling? My take would be to call and see how he feels about a visit. If you get a lot of negatives don't go. His friend may be his gf, and maybe he's roo embarrassed to fess up. Play it cool,but don't grow icicles! Link to comment
TiredMan Posted February 11, 2006 Share Posted February 11, 2006 Does he look desperate and easy to you if he comes to see you? Link to comment
TiredMan Posted February 11, 2006 Share Posted February 11, 2006 If he's an internet connection, chances are higher he's sexually promiscuous and using the web to find sex! thereforeeee your fears may be well-grounded. But don't you know the power of refraining from a casual fling? My take would be to call and see how he feels about a visit. If you get a lot of negatives don't go. His friend may be his gf, and maybe he's roo embarrassed to fess up. Play it cool,but don't grow icicles! Wow, this one takes the cake. If a guy has an internet connection, chances are he's using the web for sex? And chances are that girl is his girlfriend? Paranoid are we? Geez! Link to comment
shau_nee Posted February 11, 2006 Share Posted February 11, 2006 why are you putting so much thought into this? If you want to go see the guy go see him. My guess is that he will be happy that you did. Link to comment
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