what to do

[paitball30]

hello i m 13 and really like a girl. i don't know if she likes me but my friends and cousin a forcing me to ask her out but i what to learn more about her before i go out with her. what should i do?

[Iceman26]

Do just that. In wanting to learn more about her before you simply ask her out, you are showing more wisdom beyond your years and certainly more then your cousin and your friend.

[Alabama]

Talk with her. When you get a chance, strike up a conversation and introduce yourself. You don't have to make it known at first you like her, but simply talk to her and see what she's like. If your still interested, then eventually ask her out. But take it slow. Good luck.

[good_charlotte_freak2]

Hey...I think taking it slow and getting to know her is a good idea. I am a 13 year old girl and honestly we don't like guys you barely know us. I mean she probly likes you too...and wouldn't mind getting to know you as well...so get to know her and if she seems great go for it.

[paitball30]

yes i have tryed taking to her she some times listens but not all ways. I tryed asking her out to a dance i dont know why not fery good at danceing. she does like video games she is in 4/6 of my classes.

[Derek]

Be confident in yourself around her. Make her laugh. Have interesting stuff that you are doing in your life that you can talk about to her. Find interests that are mutual (video games) Do research on the net together to give her some cheats for the games she is into. Or perhaps do that together.

 

Let her know you like her but you are doing your own thing and not gonna wait for her. Since you already asked her out, I guess she knows you like her.

 

Pay attention to the little details she says, try and remember them and bring them up later so she knows you pay attention. (Like what kinda colors, drinks or ice cream flavours she likes)

 

Find ways to talk to her, (walk her to the bus stop or home even if it is out of your way).

 

But your attitude should be that you respect yourself and you are a valuable guy, don't bend over backwards for her.

Become friends with her friends. Ask them what she likes even.

 

 

 

[paitball30]

like i sayed a all most askest her out i day she ask me how i liked a held it back. today we meet each other eyes in sceicne and her face was sort of funy like that . when i ask her out. i ask to basic Questions was she going to the dance /was she going whith any one