My guy is too shy

[dreamalildream]

Hey wassup... ok so here's the thing. I have known my bf since feb of this yr. We started going out when the semester finished in may. He's polite and sweet and easy to talk to. Thing is that i know he wont kiss me first so I want to do it first. I just dont know how to or when it would be appropriate. I've never kissed anyone b4

[Heretic]

Just relax and when you're in a private place on a couch or on a bed... even standing, get his attention.

 

Say his name and when he turns to look give him a peck on the lips.

 

This is the best and most direct way I can think of

[SwingFox]

Hi dreamalildream,

 

First of all welcome to eNotalone.com and thank you for coming to us for seeking advice. I am pleased to read that you are getting along great with your b/f. I understand that you have some question regarding initiating the first kiss.

 

I like Heretic's ideas and I think they might work. As far as you think it's appropriate: hey, we live in the year 2003. I think it's even appropriate for a girl to ask a guy out, but ... *grins* ... that's just silly me

 

All go!

 

~ SwingFox ~

[biasedidiot2]

lol i agree wit swingfox and i also would like it more if the gurlz showed some initiative. ya kno. i think most guys wouldnt mind.