SeaBisquit Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 hi all, this weekend I'm leaving to go on a trip to meet a guy that I really like. He lives about 6 hrs. away from me. I keep wondering if I stupid for going to see him because the trip is going to cost me over a hundred dollars. I feel kinda folish for spending so much money to go and see him. So I guess my question is to the girls would you go through so much trouble to see a guy? Link to comment
RayKay Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 If he was willing to do the same for me yes. I dated someone who had to go away for a few months for work, only a few weeks into relationship. Each weekend one of us would make the 8-9 hour journey by bus or car to see one another for weekend. But we'd trade off. If we had something together I would not even think about it. Which guy is this? Link to comment
dreamy333 Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 i would i dont think you are stupid plus it shows him u are interested! Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted October 12, 2005 Author Share Posted October 12, 2005 Raykay, he is a old friend that I use to work with. He has always been interested in dating me. Link to comment
Amano Ginji Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 yeah yeah i no this is a question for the girls..but couldnt resist... i have just got into a relation ship with this girl since a week or two now..it was the other way round for me..i traveeled 4 hrs to her place..she was really happy about that...we had fun together..i culd c it that she was happy..thought i wuld share my experience..u shld go ahead and visit him..i bet he will be really happy about it.. *leaves the topic and goes to antoher thread* Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted October 12, 2005 Author Share Posted October 12, 2005 cool! i hope i have fun. i never went on a trip to see a guy before. my friends are bugging me to go out with someone new. Link to comment
Amano Ginji Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 ur doing this cuz ur frnds told u to?...any ways,,,u ill surely have a lot of fun..its a totally different feeling...trust me.. Have Fun and good luck! Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted October 12, 2005 Author Share Posted October 12, 2005 lol, yes my friends put me up to it. they just want whats best. it's nice to be going to see a guy that they all like. Link to comment
Mun Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 Why didn't he make the 6 hour trip to come see you? Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted October 12, 2005 Author Share Posted October 12, 2005 hey mun, he works the night shift five days a week. I didn't want him to drive being tired. I don't work right now, I just take a few classes. so it's easier for me and he wants me to see his place. Link to comment
Mun Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 Oh I see your point. I just have a reminder, if it's going to bug you ( the money, the time) then don't do it. If you do do it and the relationship doesn't work out, then just accept as a learning experience rather then resenting it--or him... you did have a choice after all. Well, that's what I would tell myself. And if it does work out, then it was an investment...right? Link to comment
Amano Ginji Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 Dont think much..just go..after all he wants u to c his place rite..only thing am worried about is..ur doing wat ur friends telling u to do...dont u find that stupid..in future u wont be able to do ne thing without their help..maybe..maybe not..just think of it!...next time...think for urself.. and yeah...Good luck Have fun..one again Link to comment
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