taking the initiative

[nxtbgthng]

I have a hard time taking the initiative with women and letting them know I am interested (or making it obvious that i am)...i'm frequently too cautious about being too forward...my current issue is this person i find attractive that i'll be working in a group with on a project...if i make my interest known, it may be counterproductive for the work...

Do you readers have any advice for me on how i can take initiative better? any insights to the female point of view? former experiences involving people you've had to work with....anything is appreciated...

[activelife81]

most women are passionate about something...try to find out her interests and if they are in some way interesting to you also you can have much more in-depth conversations. share your own passions with her also...so she knows more about you. and in the end...if you two dont share the same interests/values, etc then it wouldnt really be worth persuing anyywas right?

[tobigahart]

Mr life is right. Gotta start somewhere and that place is talking. If you find common ground to tread on, once you're ready you can move to the next step and see eachother outside class.

Go for it