metallicachica247 Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 a few years ago i went out with this guy and i never stopped liking him. He likes me again, but i have a bf. I like him more than my bf. Lets call the first guy d and the second one a. i like d more than a. who do i chose Link to comment
lifeiscash Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 I say C.. if you like two guys and your willing to hurt them.. either one.. then I don't think you should be in a relationship. Choose C -- Niether Link to comment
metallicachica247 Posted July 27, 2005 Author Share Posted July 27, 2005 thats the problem, i dont want to hurt either of them, thats why im having this trouble, i dont want to cheat, but i love them both Link to comment
DN Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Any way you choose you are going to hurt one of them or both, if you choose neither. Choose the one you would rather be with. It's too late now, but next time be aware, especially as you get older, that you should not be looking for other guys when you are with someone. Link to comment
metallicachica247 Posted July 27, 2005 Author Share Posted July 27, 2005 im not looking for another guy. I know that this guy likes me, and it hurts him that i have a bf. And that hurts me, when i make someone mad or upset,i have a problem that I cut myself, so i dont want to hurt them because i love them both, and I also dont want to cut. I hadnt talked to d since november, and i was asked out on my birthday (july 1) by a. I said yes to a because i was feeling desperate, but now I love him and cant break his heart. I am going to the beach with 5 families tomorrow, and d is going too. I really love them both, but i feel like im stuck. Link to comment
jna35 Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 You are going to hurt someone no matter what you do, but if you indeed care about your current bf then respect his feelings. I understand you are feeling torn, but remember the "grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence," Meaning, you may leave your bf and then regret it. P.S. Don't cut, that won't give you anything but scars. Trust me, been there, done that! Good luck. I know it's got to be a tough decision for you!! Link to comment
Helpme86 Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 Why don't you try being good friends with one or the other? Try this, but replace girl with guy. link removed Link to comment
metallicachica247 Posted July 27, 2005 Author Share Posted July 27, 2005 helpme86, im confused what do u mean Link to comment
Iwanthim Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 I have to totally 100% agree with lifeiscash. you are too young too even worry about relationships worry about being single and having some fun... Link to comment
Hope75 Posted July 27, 2005 Share Posted July 27, 2005 How do you know this other guy still even likes you, if you haven't seen or talked to him since November? Link to comment
Helpme86 Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 helpme86, im confused what do u mean Have one as a boyfriend, and the other as a real good friend. But introduce them to each other so you go with who you like more, but stay in contact with who ever you did not want to hurt...... Thats all I was saying, not sure if that helps any. Sorry if it does not. Link to comment
metallicachica247 Posted August 3, 2005 Author Share Posted August 3, 2005 ok so me and that guy r going out now and i broke up with the other one. So yeah, i feel bad and all, but now a is going out with my bff Link to comment
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