Dumped after 19 years

[Nancy 006]

Out of the blue. Told me he never truly loved me. 

[shouldhavelearned]

That stinks 

[waffle]

Is this a divorce situation?  Any kids involved?

[smackie9]

Gosh that's terrible. I don't think that's true. People say $%^& like that because they are involved with someone else and want out quickly/to push things along. Find a good lawyer, take them to the cleaners. Find support from friends and family. You can get through this. 

[Kathryn657xx]

After 19 years! I am so sorry, you must be devastated. What a total waste of life. However, is there not something more here? It doesn't seem entirely legit that he would remain in a relationship for that length of time without loving you - is he mentally stable? 

I hope you have a good support system around you.