pressured into kissing a girl?

[Love Sick Chick]

guys, do you ever feel like a girl is pressuring you into a kiss? This guy that i've seen twice now told me he was too tired last night and wanted to go to sleep. He walked me to the door and then we proceeded to makeout for about an hour.

 

If a girl is kinda forcing a kiss, how long do you kiss her for? One or two pecks? Or would you continue to kiss for that long if you really weren't that interested in her?

 

I didn't know whether or not to believe that he was just too tired. I'm wondering if it was an excuse???

 

THanks!

[kungfumaster]

i don't know if this applies to your particular situtation, but for me, if i know i won't get any kissing action so to speak, i tend to feel tired and just want to call the date a night and maybe try again another night. so, to his surprise, there was going to be some kissing action, so he woke up so to speak.

[Love Sick Chick]

well, i got the feeling that he didn't want me hanging around in the first place. I dont' know..could have just been paranoid. We were at a party and I kinda flowed in the mix to get back to his place with a friend of his. He seemed like he was avoiding me all night.

 

Then his friend wanted to crash on the couch so we get up and walk to the door. I lingered as he was saying goodbye and then he started kissing me and went on for like an hour.

 

But I guess he wouldn't have even let me get that far if he didn't kinda want to???

 

Thoughts?