Swalllow?

[Shidoshi]

I can't believe so many women here don't mind swallowing. I have yet to meet a woman who would want to do that, maybe I need to change locations....

[sunnihunni]

as far as swallowing i DEF prefer it. its better than having to clean it up afterwards...plus...if it makes him happy then why not? i could understand how it would bother girls though.

 

and as far as having a guy cum on your face...ive had a guy try this once...i didnt really like it much in my face but ill let my boyfriend cum on my chest...again, its more of a i dont mind it so if itll make him happy ill go along with it thing.

[kimichuck]

as far as swallowing i DEF prefer it. its better than having to clean it up afterwards...plus...if it makes him happy then why not?

 

Hear Hear

[Drizown]

..the dreadful spit or swallow.

 

what i HATE the MOST about sucking is when my boyfriend enjoys making me gag. he gets a kick out of me choking. its like, come on now, my throat is only so far and NO i cant get ur balls to touch my chin damnit!!

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WOW, swallowing all the way. Once, I had just gotten some surgery done on my mouth, and had stiches so i told him to tell me when so it wouldnt irritate ne thing... just incase right. OMG what a mess! it was every wear. swallowing is sooooo much easier. I haven't had any yet that have wanted to make me puke. as long as their diet has SOME vegetables in it they're fine. I wouldn't put it on my corn flakes but it's not too bad. Its just the warmness of it that i dislike but its over in like 2 seconds. I do however agree that cuming in a girls face without her permission is NEVER ok. Plus in regards to what was said up there ^, making us gag.... not cool. I can only fit you in so far (especially if ur a big one) before my gag reflexes kick in. That can't be too attractive, so unless she insists on trying to fit you all in as it where, guys dont grab our heads and see if u can do it yourself. The result might not be so nice.

[sunnihunni]

ahhhh...pushing my head down...NOT cool! most things im ok with...if he enjoys it ill pretty much go along with it but i just wont let a guy push my head down on his dick. idk...i just feels like hes being too...forceful i guess...i just dont like it at all!

[SPark]

First of all, NO ONE should be pushing anyone`s head or making them gag without being asked...and yes, there are times when you will be asked if you are not a jerk!! It`s the presumption that is jerky!!

 

As far as ejaculaing on the GF`s face....here in Japan our neighbor (a HS teacher) told about one guy student who had lovely, romantic first-time sex with his beloved longtime GF and then wrecked it by pulling out and coming on her face...because all of his sex education had been gained through porn. He thought that was the way it was meant to be!! She was not similarly educated, but just shocked and asked him not to do that without warning next time. The teacher advised him to apologize and explain, and they stayed a happy couple.

 

Porn is great, but NOT an education tool...for anal sex, either. Even people who love porn know that a lot of it is the fantasies of the middle-aged male producers...NOT reality.

[SuperNurse]

Do they always do it that way over there? My boyfriend did that to me (he says it was aciddental!!! ) He got it in my hair!!! I had to wash it out in a gas station bathroom before we went home!!!!! His mom is from Okanawa in Japan. And I know he saw a movie in japanese his dad had hidden and it had lots of cumming on faces of girls he said. He's a great guy but we haven't gone all the regular way yet so maybe there won't be more aciddents when may hair is far away from his thing at the end.

[SPark]

LOL...no, just in porn!

[SuperNurse]

I watched one of the movies with my boyfriend this weekend. All in Japanese, but there was not so much talking anyway .

I never saw a notEnglish porno movie before, so it was kinda funny. My boyfriend is bigger than most of the guys in the movie and he comes alot more. Maybe he showed me the movie for his ego . I always tell him that he is aweaome-looking. The girls in the video were not do good for my ego though cause they were all beautiful with weight or skin problems like me... He told me my boobs are bigger though Oh! why can japanese people not see genitals? Sorry, long shift and I'm tired... What I mean is that in theis other video there was this square gemetric fuzzy cloud over the penises and vaginas. my boyfriend told me that most of the videos over there are like that cause it's not legal to show it all. Are people in Japan really religious?

[SPark]

Nope, not religious and not prudish either. It`s weird...it`s just illegal to show genitals, which really messed up the "The Crying Game" and "Boogie Nights" (actually since I saw the first one in the US, not sure if an exception was made). You are right about the women...they ARE all thin and have lovely, smooth, flawless skin...I constantly feel like a hippo. There are entire STORES that have only Japanese size 9AR, which (according to my Victoria`s Secret catalog Japanese size conversion chart) is the equivalent of a US size 4. Thank goodness for Jennifer Lopez...now it`s ok to have curves. The guys in Japanese porn are, I think, specially chosen to make average guys feel comfortably superior...I have never seen such a bunch of capital-L Losers in my life...maybe they are the directors` friends from college or something? I remember one less-than-erotic Japanese porno where the guy kept his black sox on the entire time...and the hands-down strangest one I`ve ever seen starred a freakily unattractive woman who couldn`t get off unless the guy sprayed himself with a certain brand of cologne and whipped her with strands of dried squid...and, no, this was NOT someone`s idea of a plot, this was supposedly "HOT" amateur action...um...NOT.

[G_Casanova]

You're kidding, right? Being a middle-aged fellow, I've seen my share of porn. Ive even seen some of the moired Japanese ones (thanks to a friend who worked over there for a few years). Dried squid and perfume was not on the menu, however. I'll have to ask my buddy. Hey, you've apparently watched these, so you might know the answer the following:

Does there exist a Japanese female porn actress who does anything more than moan feebly during the act? My friend's wife is from Japan, and I've heard her fight with him, so I know that passionate Japanese contains more words than vague moany murmurings. Yet I have never heard more than that on any of the stuff I've borrowed. Is there a law against saying things like, "rip my panties off and ride me to glory you big tuna," or something along those lines? Anyway, you're right about the women, in general. I did see a couple women who were obviously augmented and one or two who were quite respectable in attributes (a good set of hips seemed even rarer that a large pair of breasts, and I'm a sucker for the former). And I do seem to remember a few of the men had absolutely nothing to be ashamed of in the endowment department.

[SPark]

LOL...I wish I were kidding...wish I`d never seen the darned squid video. Luckily it just put me off dried squid, not sex.

 

Yes, the feeble moaning (and in Japan, folks don`t come, BTW, they "go"...iku)...I know, I know. I would liken it to the female newscasters who seem to have nothing to do but say "hai, hai" while the male colleague reports and comments on the news. There are lots of outspoken, fiesty, cool women here, but I guess they aren`t the ones in the porn! Actually, I blame the mainstream media, which pushes the idea that women are meant to less than assertive in bed, as well as the self-perpetuating porn stereotypes (since porn seems to be a main source of sex education). I saw one TV talk show where current boyfriends contacted their girls` exes to ask for advice with relatioship problems, and one ex said that the girl in question had always been "very American" in bed...in other words, assertive and outspoken, I guess! He didn`t say it in a bad way, but since the current boyfriend was asking for advice because he thought she was too "active" for him, I guess that the implication was that it was not usual.

 

Of course, things are changing, as you mentioned. For example, diversity in body type is more acceptable, since there are more diverse body types around. When I first came to Japan 15 years ago, I was often taller (at 5`8") than every teacher in the school, but there was ALWAYS one first-year junior high kid (often a girl) who would be taller than me...so there are quite a few tall people around now, including what I call the "Sailor Moon" type women (maybe about 1% of the population? At least in the Tokyo metro area)...very tall and short-waisted, mostly legs!! Pretty amazing to see someone 5` 10" and built like a Barbie doll. I`ve heard various theories, but the most persuasive to me is that as the national diet changed, the CHILDREN whose parents` diets included more protein and calcium shot up...in other words, the dietary changes didn`t affect the first generation, but showed up in the next.

 

At least I can ask for size 8 shoes now without being laughed out of the store!! In fact, LL-sized women`s shoes are called "supermodel size" in one shoestore chain...I kind of like that!

 

PS not to generalize or anything, but you are right about the hips...long, flat bottoms seems to be the tradeoff for impossibly thin thighs...a glance through any mailorder clothing catalog will reveal that Japan is home of the butt bra!!

[G_Casanova]

I'm stealing my tagline from that post. I couldn't get that image out of my mind last night. If you have an intellectual property concern, I will of course, remove the tag. I didn't attribute it to you because I didn't get your permission to steal it from the start, though I will be happy to cite appropriately, if you so desire.

I actually like dried squid ("dried cuttlefish" the package says). My buddy's wife brings it up from downstate in bulk (she's half Japanese/Chinese-they met in Japan). I ate some on a dare once and liked it, so I give her some cash every time she goes on a big Oriental food shopping excursion, and she buys it for me, along with some other stuff I've grown to like. She also told me about the "coming versus going" thing (I've watched a few of these over at their house-Miyoko sort of ignores us with a sort of boys-will-be-boys roll of the eyes-no kids anywhere, by the way).

[SPark]

Cite away, G...I guess we`ll spread that image far and wide!

[SuperNurse]

My boyfriends mom eats that stuff (dad too, sometimes). She also eats this squid in a kinda smelly sauce that comes in a bottle. BF calls it gummy worms in vomit, so you can guess I won't be trying it. His mom is short and really beautiful but I guess that is changing from your post. More competition for vertical and horizontaly challenged me. His cousin visited last summer and she is so beautiful it made me never want to leave the state. His mother teld me that many girls in Japan would kill for my boobs though! Made me blush but my BF blushed harder! Just wish that they woundlt shrink when I lose weight but that's life, huh?

[G_Casanova]

Thanks. I had to modify the cite so all and sundry would know that the tag wasn't describing you...

[G_Casanova]

Hey, you've got a set of breasts impressive enough to elicit positive comments from your significant other's mother, and I'm inferring a set of hips significant enough to elicit similarly positive comments from me (and I am not alone in this). As you are half my age, I will refrain, but I'm throwing my weight of opinion as to your attractiveness on your SO's side. He finds you attractive and vice versa, so embrace it (and him) and let it go.

I actually am age-appropriate to hit on Ms. Hermes, however.

Free later for a little cyber- perfume & squid, my dear?

[SPark]

Yeah, gummy worms in vomit is EXACTLY what that stuff looks like...just don`t make the mistake of opening the jar to take a whiff.

 

LOL@G`s citation... but one "n" in the first name...my parents couldn`t spell.

 

Always love being hit on, G, but as luck would have it, I`m SO taken it`s not even funny...on the other hand, I suppose the right combination of cologne and dried sea creature could turn any woman`s head.

[G_Casanova]

Argghhh! Thwarted again! Well, squid and perfume S&M would probably be very difficult online, given that I don't even have a web-camera. Yeah, we're fairly primitive up here by the lake. I apologize for the extra "n", and have corrected the oversight.

I've tried the pickled squid (called "sho kara", I think). One strand. Will not do it again. My friend's wife gave it to me when I reacted so positively to the dried cuttlefish. My dog begged for some and loved the stuff, however, so it didn't go to waste. Then again, he brings home dead squirrels from time to time, not that I'm drawing comparisons.

I wonder if I could tempt JH with the possibilities of cyber pickled squid. Scent and squid in one convenient package...

Maybe I should pick an avatar that looks a bit less sinister.

By the way, I love your avatar, Nurse. I read those books a long time ago (well, not THAT long ago, but it's been a while).

[SPark]

LOL...yeah, some shio kara would have the opposite effect, for sure!! That`s the stuff that SuperNurse described as "gummy worms in vomit"...eat it all you want, but just don`t expect a kiss! I hate to tell you, but there`s even another, more threatening form of shio kara that involves tuna innards instead of the squid. That`s if you`re hardcore, I guess.

[G_Casanova]

Okay, okay, okay. I'm never going to Japan. I can't go to China, either, after watching my friend's video of his wife eating a large steamed frog when they went on vacation there.

I'm just going to light a fire, open a book, and share a roast beef and cheddar on dark rye with my dog in my little house so far away from pickled tuna entrails. I am finally understanding the value of provincialism.

[SuperNurse]

Thanks Mr. Casanova!!! 40 is not really old. Maybe you do write a little lika my Sunday school teacher talked a long time ago. I'm not such a good writer and don't watch when I type to make it worse.

I and fine with my BF so no worry but my hips and big butt are his too so sorry about that.

I hope you have good luch on your mission to find someone to havy squiddy fun with. Or tuna innardy fun! And if you like Sandman then you are smart too! BF got me to read them and I love them. He got me the whole set for my birthday last year!

Roast beef and cheddar sounds good and I share with my dog too

I am sorry my posts are not about the topic really. I just noticed that

[G_Casanova]

Just got back from a trip, during which I bought the whole of the "Sandman" and "Preacher" series in graphic novels. My significant other doesn't believe that reading comic books is a sign of intelligence, however. I also take it as a positive sign that 40 "...is not really old."

Anyway, an observation to bring this discussion back to topic: If a man expects his partner to orally receive his orgasmic product, then he should be perfectly willing to deep kiss her immediately afterward, should she so desire.

[SuperNurse]

Hah! No problem there with my boyfirned! He is usualy so happy after cuming that I could spit it all into his mouth and he would smile. I don't mind the taste though sometimes the amounmt and force of it coming out makes me choke kinda.

 

I am sure youll like the comics! I have all the Sandman from my BF and he has all the Preacher!

[Shidoshi]

Hah! No problem there with my boyfirned! He is usualy so happy after cuming that I could spit it all into his mouth and he would smile.

OMG!!! *puke*