tavenger24 Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 Had the breakup talk two weeks ago. She said she wasn't ready for a relationship but I'm pretty sure it was due to me being needy and clingy for a couple of weeks towards the end. I get it and I own it. She suggested a "break" a few of weeks before but we were in contact almost daily still so it was pretty confusing. She ended up abruptly leaving upset during the conversation so there was no official decision of next steps that night. I immediately went to No Contact because I saw no point in chasing/begging/pleading/etc. I just let her walk out and didn't chase. No texts, no calls, no nothing. During the day we used to communicate exclusively on Skype. I put myself in away status the same day as the breakup and haven't officially gone back "online" since that day. She on the other hand has been offline but has connected almost daily since then even over the weekend. She connects briefly and then immediately goes back offline. I was the only account she had in there so I'm assuming she is checking to see if I have gotten back online. 10 days and 10 times she has seen me as "offline". What is the definition of insanity? ;) Assuming she is pretty confused by my disappearing act but what choice did I have? She chose to end it so no reason for me to continue to be on Skype and be her safety net. Obviously I can't predict the future but I think it is pretty safe to say that "No Contact" definitely causes a good amount of confusion with the dumper. I still struggle daily but it is nice to feel like I do have a certain amount of control. I have no intention of contacting her again. She'll have to come to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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