TimePilot Posted November 21, 2017 Share Posted November 21, 2017 I have been in a relationship with my gf for three years. Recently she came to my apartment and noticed a empty bottle of wine next to several other bottles that I have kept for sentimental reasons. She asked me about several of the bottles and then proceeded to ask me about the wine bottle. Honestly I didn't even know anything about the bottle and mentioned that I had thought we had drank it together. My gf explained that we had not and wanted an explanation. I didn't know where it had come from and suggested that my daughter may have placed it there. My gf is convinced I am cheating as a result. I have been unable to convince her otherwise. It sucks but I'm curious if anyone has been in a situation like this and how did you resolve it? If you stayed together did it last? To me it was a paradox as I could not convince her that I wasn't cheating and I couldn't admit to cheating when I hadn't. It's horrible because she will likely forever feel like she was cheated on and cause trust issues and for me I have walked away from a relationship that was pretty good. To me it seemed in either case the damages to the relationship would have been insurmountable so I choose to end it. Link to comment
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