beantts Posted October 16, 2017 Share Posted October 16, 2017 Hello viewers of eNotAlone. I'm a 17 year old male who is into this girl. Her and I chatted for a few weeks back in January, but I had major surgery so I couldn't keep it up, and she eventually found a boyfriend. About a month ago, her, me, and a couple of friends started hanging out together. Her boyfriend, for the last few months, has been distant from her and I want to take his place (insult me all you want). My feelings for her have grown, and I can tell that hers have for me as well. One of our mutual friends asked her if she loved me and she replied, "Well I wouldn't put it like that..." instead of saying no, as well as saying she was confused with her feelings toward me and her boyfriend. This last weekend we were at a party together and she did things like sit on my lap, lay next to me on a bed, cry about her boyfriend, etc. Additionally, this is the MOST loyal girl I've ever seen, so her doing this type of behavior was a surprise to me. A mutual friend of ours' birthday party is coming up this weekend, and her boyfriend's gonna be there. But he hates drinking and hates when she drinks, which will happen at the party. So my question to you wonderful people is this: What should I do? Should I try and do what I did last weekend by getting close to her like she's my girlfriend even though he's there and see how they respond? Should I sit back and do nothing? Or do you guys think I'm being used as emotional support only? Maybe she's using this party to see who she truly wants to be with more? Any reply would be appreciated. Also I may be forgetting something minor so feel free to ask additional questions if there's any confusion. Thanks! Link to comment
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