majesticdragon Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 So my ex of 28 years who had an affair behind my back then had absolutely no contact with me for nearly a year suddenly turns up on my doorstep really drunk full of apologies and confessing to me he regretted his behaviour badly and he was no longer with the woman he had the affair with. We talked we yelled and so on, he tells me wants to come home but Im not really buying it as he had really broken my heart from his affair and him turning up drunk wasnt appealing either. Anyway we part ways and then I find out hes still with her!!! yet he came to me wanting me back. He turned up again two weeks later at night and drunk again!!!! He tells me the sorry I love you story and that its over with her and that he wants to come home. All the while he cant look me in the face either as he is ashamed of what hes done. He leaves and tells me to call him later.....I havent even bothered..and then I find out hes still back seeing the other woman aswell. She also knows that he came to my house the first time but yet shes still with him!!! Im not interested at all in his rubbish but I dont know why he comes to me yet still goes back to her,,its really laughable Your thoughts?? Link to comment
link14 Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 i have to say ur strong women .. your doing the rite thing ... ignore him .. good u moved on ... i wish i could do that too ... working on it ... failed NC third time ... Link to comment
robin13 Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 Yeah he's old and mature. If he was say in his early twenties or teens, yeah It could be judged as immaturity and a mistake. But they fact he is a grown man, I have to say hat he is acting like a very selfish person. Don't open the door again. Tell him to leave you alone and if he comes again you will call the police. It isn't fair on you Link to comment
GGunsure Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 In my heart, you deserve so much better than a drunk at your doorstep. You deserve so much better than a man who will continue to leave you for another woman. You deserve a REAL man!! Link to comment
majesticdragon Posted August 5, 2017 Author Share Posted August 5, 2017 Thank you link14...............You will move on cos that stupid word TIME actually works. Ive been through the toughest part and it still hurts but Im glad for me myself that Im not longing for him and Ive found the strength to move foward. Take care and keep going. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted August 5, 2017 Share Posted August 5, 2017 This sounds like an episode of Shameless. Link to comment
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