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My boyfriend puts everything before me..


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I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now. He has been the perfect boyfriend. He puts up with my anxiety and he is my best friend. We tell each other everything.. well almost everything. I'll get to that later though. Anyways, I just graduated high school, and in a couple of weeks I am going to be moving onto college. My boyfriend got his first full time job this summer with his best friend. Before he got this job, he would spend all day playing this outdoor game with his friends. He would invite me and I would go but I would find myself sitting there for 6 hours watching them because I didn't really like the game. When I started telling him I didn't want to go, he would stop hanging out with me to go play the game. He also has been inviting me to go places with him and his friends instead of making plans with me. Now that he has this job, he works from 5 am- 2:30 pm. He wants to be in bed most days by 8-8:30 so he is well rested, which I completely understand. What I don't understand is how he will choose to hang out with his friend that he works with all day after work instead of coming to see me. Almost every day he will promise to come see me and by the end of the day he apologizes because he puts me off and we don't get to see each other at all. When I actually do see him which is maybe twice every week, he complains about his friend, yet he continues to put him before me. I have brought up my feelings to him SO MANY TIMES and every time he promises things will be different but they never are. I only have a couple weeks until I leave for college and I don't understand why he won't make time for me. He also just admitted to me the other day that he watches porn, because he asked his friend if it was okay to do and his friend told him its fine. I feel like he's letting his friend influence his and I just miss the old him. I am seriously considering breaking up with him, but I'm not sure if its the right thing to do??

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