Putting my mind on something else

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I am facing some problems in my relationship in my LDR. The problem is I dont think she believes me more than she believes her new fd(boy). Many events have taken place, i dont think she does have the belief, even if she has her actions dont show this seriousness to probably continue this relationship.

 

In this case, I want to be prepared and dont want to hurt myself -- as i have a lot to do in studies (thats why i have went away to a different city -- i am 16 right now).

 

I just dont want to hurt my body and also hurt people around me and waste my time grieving over this as I have already wasted more than 8 months on this and dont want to put my mind on this again as I know that she also may be right on her part, and I know that I am right on my part.

 

Please give me some advices so that I put my mind on something other than thing which concern my gf and my relationship. As it is not possible to join some gym, or play some sport due to a serious curriculum which I would be following there which is based only on studies.

 

Also, as I know that my mind would (as always had in the past) drift away from studies to my gf and my relationship which would ruin my time and my studies.. I want something which would help me to fight this feeling of mine and also help me to keep up with my studies so that I dont end up wasting another year. Please tell me some activities and some mental notes to keep me up high.

 

Please reply.

Thanks in advance.

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Also please refer me some good music (i am interested in it).

But the problem with me now currently is that I hear -- Linkin Park, Metallica, Enrique, George Michael, Michael Jackson, Bon Jovi, Bryan Adams but mostly I skip to some love song my MLTR etc... (this happened all the last yr which distracted me) and then i think about HER.

 

So please refer me some good songs which are not related to love at all..

or if u have really good english (only) love songs -- please tell it to me.

 

If any other way to keep my mind away from my gf, please ur welome.

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Common people - please give me some advices.

 

Just for the experienced -- how did you did stuff?? i mean i know it would surely would have hurt, but for those few who managed to absorb the shock quickly, what did they do??