SilentLife Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 hey well basically i dont know if this girl likes me or not. Her name is nat, and i have known her a while but im not sure if she likes me or not. Well firstly ive known her for ages now, about 2 or 3 years, and ive really started to like her alot, i think shes amazing. But i dont know if she likes me and this is why. We speak now and then, and when i do i like her more and we both went to a party on monday. I was determined to show her i like her at this party but i dont know if it worked. I was talking with hr alot, giving her hugs but i dont know if i flirted with her enough, i dont have any confidence in myself but we got on none the less. we were just chatting like talking to her as a friend, but i think i didnt do enough. When everyone started going sleep i sleept right next to her and we were talking until like 5 in the morning both high and a lil drunk. But still nothing happened, i blame myself i should of done somthing . And when she went home in the morning i did not hug her which i feel really bad about! After that i had to see her or talk to her because we have 2 weeks off college so i asked my friend for her mobile number and ive started to text her, but somtimes it seems like im speaking to a wall, yeah she always replies but i dont feel like she wants to. But another thing is its nat, shes kinda like that lol, today we were texting about 4 hours but i still dont know if she likes me in that way or not . Can anyone help? like advice or anyhingis welcome, i dont really like talking to my friends about it they just basically say "Grow some balls and ask her" which is not great advice. Please help!!! Link to comment
pandorasbox Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 your friends are exactly right. grow some balls and ask her. Link to comment
Ddog187 Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 Well thats a clear sign texting for 4 hours wow pretty long time. I say she likes you. How about ask her to a movie or a night out in town? Lol your friends advice is not that great. Anyway just keep talking to her and when you feel the time is right just simply ask her out to a movie or something you and her can hang out and talk over things. Link to comment
ShyGuy444 Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 texting for 4 hours doesn't mean she likes you, so don't go on thinking that and making up feelings for her. But at the same time, the only way you'll find out is asking her out....so just go and do it man good luck Link to comment
pandorasbox Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 the movie idea is great. take her out on a movie and ask her out there. Link to comment
Millerm Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 Yes i think she likes you you should ask her out Link to comment
SilentLife Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 yeah i was thinking that, i need to wait for the right timing though, thanks for ya advice though ill ask her tomorro or somthing ill tell you how it went lol. Link to comment
SilentLife Posted March 24, 2005 Author Share Posted March 24, 2005 well i asked her after texting for ages, but she said she thinks she going town with her mate tomorra because they didnt today (which is true) ,she said sorry and i just like told her its ok and not to worry, we carried on talking but im still not sure, if she does like me, then she kinda hides her emotions or somthing. i hope she likes me i dont know if i cant stand losing another girl . Link to comment
Millerm Posted March 25, 2005 Share Posted March 25, 2005 ok just kinda flirt with her and keep being real nice and stuff.....you should try calling her instead of texting.....that helps believe me. Keep us posted, Michael Link to comment
Millerm Posted March 25, 2005 Share Posted March 25, 2005 o wait what do you mean by going to town do you mean what i think you do lol? Link to comment
SilentLife Posted March 25, 2005 Author Share Posted March 25, 2005 it means going to the city centre, shopping etc. i texted her to day but she hasnt texted back, yeah i get paranoid easily. i like her so much, damn i cant stand thinking yet another girl i like doesnot like me. Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted March 26, 2005 Share Posted March 26, 2005 If the girl likes you, she will want to spend ANY time with you possible. No exceptions. I guess she isn't interested man. It's ok, there's a lot of women out there. Link to comment
Millerm Posted March 26, 2005 Share Posted March 26, 2005 im sorry but im not sure if she does or not.....just keep trying to call her instead of texting maybe it will work out Link to comment
Kitz Posted March 26, 2005 Share Posted March 26, 2005 If the girl likes you, she will want to spend ANY time with you possible. No exceptions. I guess she isn't interested man. It's ok, there's a lot of women out there. Y'know, for a 14 year old guy metallicaguy seems to be able to understand girls alot better than some of the like, 50 year old guys on here (coughal7cough). Link to comment
SilentLife Posted March 26, 2005 Author Share Posted March 26, 2005 or she just doesnt want to stand her friend yup? and way thats not true lol, shhhh your 14 i know what she is like i have known her a while. i had a dream bout her last night, damn... makes oyu like them more... damn dreams! lol anyway its my birthday tomora so i think im gunna hrow a party tomorra and see if she comes or not. time will tell. Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted March 26, 2005 Share Posted March 26, 2005 Y'know, for a 14 year old guy metallicaguy seems to be able to understand girls alot better than some of the like, 50 year old guys on here (coughal7cough). Thanks lol. Yeah I guess. But see Al is right sometimes, but he over-analyzes and thinks way too much lol. Link to comment
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