rhiday Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 First off I'm going to start off by saying I don't identity as part of the gay community. I am a straight woman and I don't have any sexual attraction towards the same sex and I am pro love. A friend and I were having a intense conversation about sexuality. I know little about the subject beyond heterosexuality. The conversation then went on to identifying sexuality. This discussion made me realize that I am not attracted to the same sex but if I found the right person (7 billion people) I would be open to having an emotional/ strictly romantic relationship with the same sex. This realization has got me weirded out because it's uncharted territory and a realization within myself that I never explored and I don't really want to. I've always been attracted to guys 100% mentally, sexually and emotionally. It also has weirded me out a bit because of the I was starting to realize that it wasn't all about sex with me and I feel like I could have a strong non sexual romantic relationship with the same sex and be content. I imagine this being a strong friendship that is a passionate non sexual relationship. I did some reading about the subject and it talked about women in the 1700s or around that time having passionate friendships that aren't sexual and don't go beyond a kiss on the lips or cheek. I'm curious to know your opinion on the subject. Can someone have a successful relationship without the sexual aspect of it. Would this be bisexual? Since the population is so large should we keep our decisions narrow or be open to whatever is thrown. Is it in human nature to have sex as part as relationship. Just wanna know your thoughts. Link to comment
rhiday Posted October 2, 2016 Author Share Posted October 2, 2016 I am not in any way, shape or form saying that any sexuality beyond straight is "weird" I apologize about the wording of this. I'm describing the feeling of this realization being weird. Link to comment
Matt3939 Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 Not sure really where u r going with this. There are couples out there that can't have sex but are still couples. Gay or not gay. Link to comment
SkellyWoozle Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 Just be who you are. You are what you are.... why do you have to fit "into a box"? Go with what you're happy with and enjoy life! X Link to comment
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