justwonderingkid Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 there is this girl i really like and she is sorta popular too but she has never had a bf and she asks me to carry her book for her like everyday for one passing period and she says alot of stuff and replies just kidding alot, and well how to know if she likes me or not (F.Y.I. sadies is like in 2 days and i know she wont ask me unless i speak up about having feelings for her because as far as i know right now she isnt going and this is the last dance of the year for us freshmen) please give me advice on what to do Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 Well, your just her bookboy. She's just using you to carry her book. What "stuff" and says just kidding after that? Link to comment
Sn0man Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 If you like the girl, make a move. If it doesn't work out, oh well. at least you tried. If it does, great! Just do something. You know the old saying; act, or be acted upon... Link to comment
justwonderingkid Posted March 3, 2005 Author Share Posted March 3, 2005 well she sometimes will say oh yes im madly in love with you haha just kidding but most of the time its just stuff in general about me Link to comment
lillady898 Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 I highly doubt she is just using you as a mule. A lot of females I know ask a guy who they are into to do something for them (i.e. carry something, move something, etc.) to see whether the guy would do it or not. And that is the female's way of seeing how much this guy really likes her. It's silly to me, but a friend of mine explained her whole "theory" to me, which seemed to be much like this (I could be wrong, though, this could be totally different). I'd carry my own things before putting myself at the risk of looking lazy. But that's just my thought. If the dance is coming up, don't waste anytime. Before you know it this chance could be long gone, and that'd be no good. Tell her how you feel. It'll definetly cut out some of the "what if's" in the future. Link to comment
justwonderingkid Posted March 3, 2005 Author Share Posted March 3, 2005 her friend asks me if i think that she(the girl i like) is cute and i always say sure Link to comment
Bubba_p Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 just ask her if shes going when your carring her books she says no ask her if she would with you. Link to comment
Sn0man Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 Oh, to be young again... You will look back on this stuff in the future and have yourself a good laugh. If ya like the girl, do something about it. That always works for me. It's not always easy to figure out exactly what you need to do to get things going, but you are going to know how to go about it more than anyone here will, as you are the one in this position. Good luck with the girl brudda Sn0man Link to comment
justwonderingkid Posted March 3, 2005 Author Share Posted March 3, 2005 its just so hard for me to just pop up the question because normally im ok talking with her and stuff but when it comes to asking her out and to dance i just get really nervous Link to comment
Sn0man Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 You don't just have to go up to her and ask her 'out'. That, in itself, does feel kinda weird. Just let it be a natural thing. Say something like...wanna catch a movie with me? or...wanna have coffee sometime? or whatever...if she's into you, she'll be into doing something with you. Never, i mean "NEVER" just ask a girl out. I mean, don't just go up to her and say "ya wanna go out?", that's just retarded. You get the picture. Do it. Link to comment
justwonderingkid Posted March 3, 2005 Author Share Posted March 3, 2005 so then how can i know later if we are bf gf or just close friends, do i ask her to be my gf?? Link to comment
tanned_production Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 Follow your gut. I'm sure you have some sort of instinct on what you should do. If you like the girl that much, then go for it . You'll regret it if you don't. Whats the worse that can happen? Good luck Link to comment
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