Carolyn6579 Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 I picked my ex up because he claimed he needed a ride real bad ok no problem until i realized it was for drugs and when he was coming out from buying drugs he had the nerve to hug a woman in front of me and them tried to justify it...why are lessons so hard for me to learn... Link to comment
DoF Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 Because you continue to engage with crappy people. Key is to weed these people out of your life, not be around them. And clearly he used you to get his drugs.....how pathetic is that? Tell him to never reach out to you again, proceed to block him/ignore him. Link to comment
Dottieflanogon Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 May I ask why you are still dealing with him? People won't use you unless you allow them to -this is on you! He's bad news. Cut him off and Go NC. He's an ex for a reason Link to comment
Birdie Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 Is the divorce finalized? Do you have a lawyer? Link to comment
Carolyn6579 Posted December 4, 2015 Author Share Posted December 4, 2015 Because i am blind by love and stupid....i can't believe this happened however i am glad it did because there is no going back...i blocked his number and i went to a hotel for tonight to clear my head.. Link to comment
Carolyn6579 Posted December 4, 2015 Author Share Posted December 4, 2015 Divorce is not final yet but my heart is done.... Link to comment
Carolyn6579 Posted December 4, 2015 Author Share Posted December 4, 2015 I am even going to get help because i have a problem because i allow this and i keep going back for more...i need to be strong and move on... Link to comment
Dottieflanogon Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 Do you have children together? Link to comment
Birdie Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 I'm not too familiar with divorce, so I may be wrong here, but it might not be possible to completely cut contact until everything is finalized. If you have a lawyer, you could forward him their contact information and go through them? Then at least you can block his number and work on not dealing with him directly. Also, ask him to NOT contact you at all (in writing, whether email or text message) and save it. Just in case. Link to comment
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