she wont talk

[mullet29]

i got this girl a bday present tuesday, gave it to her wednesday she said thanks but didnt open it till i went, she hasnt told me since that she liked it or anything, i got the impression today when i went over there to talk to my mate (she was sat next to him) that she went quiet everytime i came over, i spoke to her a little but she looked at me like i was odd and she gave me a confused what you doing look when i caught eye contact with her!

 

i txt her saying

 

hey you guess what i did today

 

she replied

 

what did you do?

 

i said

 

had my head shaved, it looks different x

 

she didnt reply, she came on msn and i said hey, howz u? she said im ok thank u, i said gdgd, anything interesting happen to you today? she went offline

 

ive just sent her a message saying how was your driving lesson yesterday? she hasnt replied

 

i get the impression she wont talk - she has told me things that she hasnt told her best mate, she seemed fine with me until her bday!

 

she did once tell me that when she knows a guy likes her she changes, she might know i like her!? i have dropped hints to her about it!

 

is there anything i should do or say to her? i think im txting her too much, but i cant stop thinking about her!!!!

 

give me some advice please!

[FuriousSam]

...i think im txting her too much...

 

You already know what you are overdoing, just stop doing it already.

 

...but i cant stop thinking about her!!!!

 

Sure you can. Go out and meet people. Get a hobby, learn a skill. Don't become obsessive.

 

As for why she changed her behaviour... What kind of gift did you get her?

[mullet29]

just a cuddly eeoore

 

she likes cuddly things - she loves me2you bears!

 

no idea what to do now - i dont go out often - clubs and pubs arnt me really, im in college, but there isnt anyone i really like there tbh

[mullet29]

im pretty certain its not coz she is stressed! and its coz she knows i like her

 

so what should i say to her? to let her know i still wanna be her friend

 

how should i act?

 

etc

[FuriousSam]

Just act normal. Stop calling, texting, e-mail her like crazy and cut communication down to minimal.