whyme1607307127 Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 Hey! Well, first off, I'd like to wish everyone a Merry Christmas! And..yeah, the other night, I had sex for the first time with my bf. He was very undersanding and it didn't hurt too much.But the thing is, since then we've done it a couple of times, and I'm wondering...twice , after having done it,I felt like crying He knows this but I don't know if it bothers him or not..... Why do I feel like that? I was ready and I really wanted to.... Also, I was wondering wether it gets better with time(sex)? thx for any advice[/b] Link to comment
ticklebug Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 read this... link removed,,189073_8150,00.html?arrivalSA=1&cobrandRef=0&arrival_freqCap=1&pba=adid=13012931 Link to comment
shuntaro603 Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 i read that it is a common reaction after orgasm, don't worry about it Link to comment
Blue Skittles Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 I used to cry when after really good sex or after a really good orgasm. I think its something to do with the fact that when u orgasm it lets all your emotions out. Also you were probably feeling vulnerable after sex which makes it easy to cry - also why cuddling feels so nice afterwards Link to comment
JonnyG Posted December 28, 2004 Share Posted December 28, 2004 I dont think the above people have answered u correctly as u state that "Why do I feel like that? I was ready and I really wanted to.... " which sounds to me like your unhappy with it and your annoyed because u really want to enjoy it. Am i correct? To be honest, im not really sure why you are crying. Were u are virgin before u slept with this guy? Do u have guilty feelings? If your wondering if it will get better in a pain related way, then yes. Its usually uncomfortable for the female for a while but it gets better. Link to comment
Esprit Posted December 29, 2004 Share Posted December 29, 2004 Just remember that not all tears are due to sadness. Have you ever cried because of something beautiful? I often cry after having an amazing time with my boyfriend... But then, that's just me. Link to comment
BrandonBo Posted January 17, 2005 Share Posted January 17, 2005 yes things will get better in time ive heard alot of girls feeling that way after the first time or several times its natural they just get emotional its ok dont worry about it everything will be fine Link to comment
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