bostonsfinest2 Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 What's your guys opinion.I was dumped which was totally my fault (lying on separate occasions ).been I'm no contact but ex contacted me and have been hanging out recently.it's been going well sometimes she brings up the past.since I ruined it should I be available for her.I know when you get dumped you should play less available and cool but since I messed it up it's my turn to fix it right? I feel like putting in 110% and nit getting much in return.thanks for the advice guys Link to comment
mhowe Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 You have asked this several different t ways and times. You messed up...you apologized and now she is just treating you like a doormat. Walk away. Link to comment
pl3asehelp Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 You're going to find out the hard way why playing games is wrong. You should stay no contact and move on. If you don't she'll continue grooming you into her lapdog because hey, you screwed up so you deserve it. Link to comment
bostonsfinest2 Posted March 20, 2014 Author Share Posted March 20, 2014 You have asked this several different t ways and times. You messed up...you apologized and now she is just treating you like a doormat. Walk away. I'm so confused.she's taking me on a date next week. All on her she said she'll treat me.I don't get it Link to comment
MisUnderstood9 Posted March 20, 2014 Share Posted March 20, 2014 I'm so confused.she's taking me on a date next week. All on her she said she'll treat me.I don't get it There isnt anything to get. This girl is making you her doormat! Stop letting her do it! Tell her thanks for the offer but you don't want to go on a date with her. You are like a magpie and she just keeps dangling shiny things (not literally - its a metaphor) infront of you so you keep coming back! STOP the cycle, cut her off, go no contact and move on! Link to comment
ChilliRed2013 Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 Heck, just for the sake of adding a different point of view. I say go on the date, see how she behaves. Don't go with the aim of fixing anything. Don't boast unnecessarily or agree with everything she says. Be yourself. Simple yeah? It may be harder than you think. You have been made aware of the risks of where this may lead. Consider yourself forewarned and armed with good advice to help you understand some behaviours of an Ex ...if/when you post a de-brief on here Link to comment
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