cantgetoverit Posted December 6, 2004 Share Posted December 6, 2004 Hi there, My girlfriemd broke up with me 6 months ago . We had a short but perfect relationship, but when we were together she would say things like " if we are still friends then" when we would talk about doing things in th future. Anyways, 3 weeks after breaking up with me she asked me back only to break up with me 3 weeks later.The dat after she breaks up with me she calls to say sorry, and the day after asked me if I wanted to see a movie as "friends". I told her I wasnt interested in just friends, so I never went. Two weeks Of NC and I called her, and she very happy to hear from me .We had a great conversation ,and made plans for a movie the next week. When we went to the movie we were'' friends" but she was putting her head on my shoulder and rubbing my leg.I said nothing and did nothing, except enjoy it. On the phone she told me how I wasnt like other guys , and told me all the things she liked about me. We hung out a few times after and she would sit in my lap and hold my hand. Well , i thought she was inetested in getting back so i asked her, and she said no.Her reason for touching me was; that she was " comfortable" with me, but was not intersted in me. Two months of NC later and we are again hanging out again, ( I made contact)she was very excited to see me and talked about doing stuff together again. We were talking on the phone for hours again.We have a great time when we are together and so much in common. But, again she was touching me. This was about two months ago. Nothing has happened since we have talked on the phoine a few times , but she has just kind of drifted away again ,she has stopped calling, and I cant figure it out.Last time we talked evrything was good and fun . I feel she might be afraid of commitment ,and she continually hurts me by coming and going, but I can't walk away. I have never met someone with whom I have had so much in common with and so much fun with. I show her nothing but love, but I am just torturing my self in the process. I should just walk away and forget about her, but I can't! Why cant I just walk away, and stop making a fool of myself by continuing to chase her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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