My mom doesnt like my gf...it really pisses me off

[noname]

my girl is upset beacause my mom doesnt like her... she didnt even met her yet! she just heard some rumors about my gf and starts to make up a bad image about my girl... fukin pisses me off litteraly!!! how can i make my mom like my gf (and i dont wanna get into a fight with my mom)...

[Iceman26]

What kind of rumors were they? Could it be that your mom is simply worried about you due to what she has heard about this girl?

 

You need to remind your mom that she needs to care about what makes you happy, and to give this girl a chance.

[GettingOverIt]

I can tell you from experience here... Be upfront and straight with your mother. Find out what she's heard, and find out what she thinks. She needs to know that you need her to support you, no matter what she thinks or what she's heard. My mother and I had a knock-down drag-out once over a girl I was seeing. Ultimately, she came around and realized that she needed to support me as her son, even if she didn't agree with what I was doing or who I was seeing. It actually changed the whole relationship between my mother and me. The girl and I ended up splitting up, but the lessons learned were invaluable!

[xmrth]

She really needs to meet your girlfriend in person. That is definitely the first step in how your mother will be more comfortable with you dating her, and eventually coming to like her.

[ticklebug]

you can't "make" someone like anyone...but as xmrth says, your mom needs to meet this girl in order to form her own opinions (and be warned, she still may not like her) but it will go a long way to helping things if you arrange for them to spend time together.